I want to break up with my boyfriend who is very much in love with me, how do i do it without hurting him..?
7 Answers to "I want to break up with my boyfriend who is very much in love with me, how do i do it without hurting him..?"
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How about, "I don't know exactly what to say. I don't want to hurt you, but I don't want to be in a relationship with you."
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actually i do like that one.. but EVERY time i go to say soemthign of the sorta he does well in changing my mind. he constantly reminds me WHY i fell for him.
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And you have to be strong and tell him you know all that, you're grateful for all you've had together, but you've decided to move on. It's done and there's no hard feelings. You're lucky to have had the chance to spend the time with him. Tell him that kind of thing.
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You dont give how long you've been together, or the reason why ? u want to break up--but maybe u prefer not to elaborate. but no matter how u do it, of course it will cause pain and dejection--put yourself in his shoes--how would u like him to put it, without hurting you ? theres never an easy way is there ? be kind be truthful and remember there was good memories also ? i wish u well--and ur B/.F also.
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If he loves you there is no way to avoid it. If he is so in love with you why do you want to break up with him?
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send cash and kind note
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You can't but you should follow your heart and sombody always gets hurt when it comes to love
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but my heart is torn and confused. it says end it, then when im actually talking to him with ending it in mind, he will say or do something to change my mind..
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tell him the truth that you are thinking about it and see what he has to say if he really matters to you he should know how you feel that doesn't mean you have to break up but he should be informed about how you feel right
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Impossible. Just do what you have to do, and don't play games with his heart.
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im not playing with him, but i dont know what to say.. i dont know how to tell him i dont wanna be in a relationship with him..
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I didn't mean to imply that you are playing games. What I meant was, just be forthright about it. Tell him exactly what you said above. You don't want to be in a relationship any longer. That way, it leaves no questions in his mind. Don't leave him hanging. That's all I meant. Good luck.
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Posted by aprilriver Nov 13th, 2011 at 5:48AM
Just let him know that it wouldn't be fair to continue a relationship with him when you don't feel as strongly as he does. There is no way to get around hurting him but let him know that you want him to have someone that will love him as much as he loves them. Some will try to argue their way out of dumped but you need to let him know that it will never work because you just don't feel that way about him. He will love someone else someday and they will love him. Some guys will argue that they will never love someone again and they only want you but then yo tell him that if he loves you he would want to to be happy even if it means you won't be with him.
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Reply by uppercase Nov 13th, 2011 at 5:53AM
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Reply by wiseriser Nov 13th, 2011 at 6:43AM
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