One of the most effective methods of getting a female is.<br />
1. Rope<br />
2. A bag<br />
3 Duck tape<br />
Lol joke btw, dont do it
Duct tape solves everything :P
Then just make friends with people and you may find what you have been seeking without even looking. Sometimes people try too hard to impress on the internet or bars and aren't honest in either place. Just be who you are not some phony and you'll find like minded women out there.
I think the best way to meet someone is to be totally selfish. Set goals for yourself and don't even think about finding someone. Do whatever hobby you like to do but just be active. This way you will have common interests and end up meeting. When you are at your happiest that's when you will attract someone to you.
PUT AN ADD IN YOUR LOCAL NEWS PAPER<>?<> maybe..
You will find someone, you just have not met the right person yet. I would<br />
go out more, you never know what you may find. Try and approaching someone<br />
different you may get a spectacular surprise.
Let me know what you find out. I am going through the same situation and I don't do facebook.
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