That's the tricky part of love, doesn't it? Sometimes it's too muchpouring like the tsunami, and sometimes it's dried out like sahara. Try to talk with your husband about this. Maybe he doesn't notice it.
Maybe because you're expecting something specific from him? It could be that he don't know how to express his feelings. Or it could be that you have set your own standard and definition of 'love', thus make you discard everything that doesn't fit in your 'love'? No offense intended~
Some men show love differently. Sometimes you have to look through their actions in order find out how they feel.
what are some of the things that you would like your husband to do that he is currently not doing to make you feel the love that you need to feel, have you also tried talking to him about how you feel this help sometime as only you know what make you feel good, no one knows you more than yourself
well if he does everything you have to think about what is making you feel the way you do, something is causing you not to want him touch you. has it always been like this you not wanting him to touch you, retrace your steps may help you to see what went wrong.