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    twotonedme - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by twotonedme Jan 17th, 2013 at 9:42PM

    There is alot of torment and bondage associated with an abusive man. He is not just beating on the woman he is speaking too. And the sexual unions compound and lock a woman up to that man too. People say why doesn't the woman just up and leave....why doesn't a prostitute just up and leave her pimp and they get treated just as bad. Strong holds of control. I could elaborate further but will halt here. smiles

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11 Answers to "I want to know why YOU think women handle abuse from men so perfectly"

  1. bijouxbroussard - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by bijouxbroussard Jan 17th, 2013 at 9:29PM

    I don't, because I was taught all my life that I didn't have to.

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  2. flowerchild555 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by flowerchild555 Jan 17th, 2013 at 10:05PM

    Because they are beaten down in every way, physically, mentally & spiritually until they are too weak to do anything good for themselves. Men have a lot to answer for. Only a cowardly piece of sh*t beats a woman mentally or physically.

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  3. Traum - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Traum Jan 17th, 2013 at 9:25PM

    Probably because women are stronger than men. A lot of people have it backwards, but to think that men are dominant in anything but a physical sense is a joke. We wear masks that are far less honest than our female counterparts.

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  4. Messyah - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by Messyah Jan 18th, 2013 at 2:12PM

    Beautifully written - not that I agree - but the world needs more people with your sentiments

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  5. Traum - 18-21 years old - male

    Reply by Traum Jan 18th, 2013 at 2:43PM

    I mean, clearly I was just in a dramatic mood lol. I don't agree with what I said ALL of the time. In far less exaggerated terms, I just meant that many women I know put up with a lot of crap from guys I know, and that a lot of men are way more sensitive/insecure than they like to advertise, myself included. The only reason I'd ever even voice an opinion like this is because I'm anonymous right now. I'd get a lot of crap if I said this in front of my friends, lol.

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  6. toistory - 41-45 years old

    Posted by toistory Jan 17th, 2013 at 9:23PM

    I don't. I think its sad that abuse occurs ...

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  7. grayday104 - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by grayday104 Jan 17th, 2013 at 9:18PM

    Wasn't me

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  8. hylierandom - 36-40 years old

    Posted by hylierandom Jan 17th, 2013 at 10:10PM

    http://www.abuseandrelationships.org/Content/Survivors/trauma_bonding.html

    Men get abused too...and it works the same way.
    Verbal abuse slowly wears the person down first, then the physical battery starts.
    Emotional abuse alone can make you feel wretched.

    I'm getting unmarried to a woman who treated me with a great deal of disrespect.
    (I'm female).

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  9. Sarah196 - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by Sarah196 Jan 17th, 2013 at 9:25PM

    I think it might be because of how emotionally involved some women can be. Despite the abuse, they stick around because of those emotions; love, fear, loneliness, whatever it may be.

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  10. faith7777 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by faith7777 Jan 17th, 2013 at 9:25PM

    ..love..for better or worse...

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  11. Sharpie7 - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by Sharpie7 Jan 17th, 2013 at 9:24PM

    Unfortunately, SOME women (and men) have been led to believe that they don't deserve better. They think that abuse or mistreatment is the best they can expect.

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  12. Kat47 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Kat47 Jan 17th, 2013 at 9:22PM

    They don't handle it well at all....I didn't.

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