You're a big girl you can do it
she probably wont understand at 1st but eventually if she sees you happy she will be happy that your happy if ya know what i mean :3
Say mom , I am in a lesbian relationship . <br />
Done .<br />
I'm bi - hardest thing I ever did was come out to fam .<br />
Amazing cause they didn't flinch .<br />
It was great relief to just be free !!<br />
When people truly love you it goes a long way .
Open your eyes, and make things right.
The right time is now! It's either now or never. The longer you wait, the worse it gets.
"Mom, I have something to confess. I hope you will forgive me..."
"What is it?" And you explain. Come on!!! Right now!!! Get it out if the way. Waiting will do nothing but make it worse. -kicks you down the stairs- GO!!!
I already told my mom you are... (she was shocked, but forgiving)
Is it true, or do you just want to say that and watch it play out?
Well hon, go for it in a way that balances your need to be who you are with who you know your mother is. Ultimately it's your life so even if she doesn't take the news well she's going to have to decide whether the essential person you are outweighs the detail of the gender of the person you choose to love. She should be happy she brought up someone who's capable of loving anyone.
how do you anticipate your mom reacting to this news?