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I will never ever understand how people on here can pretend to be someone so nice....and turn out to be sooo cruel.

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    DaemonicCoyote - 13-15 years old - male

    Posted by DaemonicCoyote Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:25AM

    *Tosses brick up and down* It's simple. They're cruel. That's why they do it.

    Or maybe, they're nice, and you're just seeing them in the wrong light.

    *Throws brick through window.* Dun dun duuun, I'm so cruel.


    Oh, wait, this is the house of some guy who assaulted me and made my life rather awry. Oh, okay, I'm a good guy.

    I suggest finding out -why- one is being cruel before judging them.

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  1. Wurkoutgurl - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Wurkoutgurl Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:29AM

    Well, seeing how I'm the one being judged...

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  2. DaemonicCoyote - 13-15 years old - male

    Reply by DaemonicCoyote Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:30AM

    *Tilts head* Well, my brain can't handle this new plot twist. *Falls asleep on desk*

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18 Answers to "I will never ever understand how people on here can pretend to be someone so nice....and turn out to be sooo cruel."

  1. Lushiro - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Lushiro Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:24AM

    I blame the troll infestations and worse...

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  2. Wurkoutgurl - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Wurkoutgurl Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:35AM

    I just got played and am sooo angry at myself for letting my feelings get hurt like this......

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  3. Lushiro - male

    Reply by Lushiro Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:40AM

    (hugs) BLOCK THEM ALL!

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  4. EvilDemon - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by EvilDemon Nov 22nd, 2012 at 3:07AM

    And makes you think "on here" makes an exception?

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  5. pixelbest - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by pixelbest Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:50AM

    I don't understand how people can be so cruel full stop, online or in real life. Hard to understand why, just who they are I guess.

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  6. Wurkoutgurl - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Wurkoutgurl Nov 22nd, 2012 at 3:02AM

    yeah...i think I like real life more than online..at least I can see a face. Makes it harder to trick someone...

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  7. angelicsmiles - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by angelicsmiles Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:43AM

    There are fake people everywhere, online or in real life. In real life, it is easier to comprehend the words spoken because you can see their expressions and eyes and sometimes fakeness in someone becomes obvious. Online its harder to determine until something happens to make you realise this.

    Having said that, there are also genuinely nice people everywhere. You just had a bad experience at the wrong time, thats all.

    Sometimes, if you are already having a bad day and upset, it could just be you were over sensitive, and misunderstood something. This could be an option to consider.

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  8. Wurkoutgurl - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Wurkoutgurl Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:48AM

    I wish that were true. After they said what they did...I just sat there...I couldn't believe it....no...it was cruel..and mean and judgmental...and very hurtful..I'm sure of it. And they knew I was having a rough night...that's what makes it even worse.

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  9. angelicsmiles - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by angelicsmiles Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:50AM

    You are best to just let go of this because the only person it might be affecting is you. If they are cruel when you are down, you are better off without them. Just dont form the opinion everyone else is also the same.. everyone is different.

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  10. vstembuds - 18-21 years old

    Posted by vstembuds Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:32AM

    seriously i hate such back stabbers

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  11. Wurkoutgurl - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Wurkoutgurl Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:41AM

    yeah...not right..

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  12. RadioActiveKiss - 13-15 years old - female

    Posted by RadioActiveKiss Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:27AM

    Its stupid,they should just be themselves & if ppl can't accept it then oh well :)

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  13. usaone - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by usaone Dec 20th, 2012 at 3:38PM

    I am VERY NICE and My Profile Speaks for me.

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  14. harisheldon - 36-40 years old - male

    Posted by harisheldon Nov 22nd, 2012 at 6:28AM

    Wow girl. I havent had that happen yet. Ive only opened up deeply with a few though I'm sorry it happened to you. You are so nice and care about others so quickly and deeply

    Try to guard your heart more maybe I'm not sure though cause we need kind souls like you running around here

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  15. DrPestKontrolle1881 - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by DrPestKontrolle1881 Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:53AM

    My own solution to would be manipulators is to talk to relatively few people & show feelings to almost no one - I've had almost no good experiences with revealing feelings. Such an approach is obviously not for everyone, but it allows me to keep pride intact - which comes to matter more than other things in a world where no one cares anyway.

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  16. Wurkoutgurl - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Wurkoutgurl Nov 22nd, 2012 at 3:01AM

    Sounds good in theory...but sooo not who I am. I am very much a people person. I will definitely be more careful...however....sad thing is...I thought i was being careful before.

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  17. Durra - 26-30 years old

    Posted by Durra Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:49AM

    This is life.

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  18. Wurkoutgurl - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Wurkoutgurl Nov 22nd, 2012 at 3:03AM

    yep...life is kinda not nice sometimes...

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  19. AvalonWeiss - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by AvalonWeiss Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:48AM

    It's the Ying and Yang baby!

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  20. Wurkoutgurl - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Wurkoutgurl Nov 22nd, 2012 at 3:03AM

    guess so

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  21. Manwithabigsmile - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by Manwithabigsmile Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:48AM

    I have met some of them as well, they are nice till you open up a bit then they jump.

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  22. Wurkoutgurl - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Wurkoutgurl Nov 22nd, 2012 at 3:04AM

    yep...so cruel..

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  23. lookingforanexit - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by lookingforanexit Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:44AM

    I feel ya, girl! I have had that happen a few times on here. Now I am almost scared to talk to people because you never know when they will flip on you.

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  24. Wurkoutgurl - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Wurkoutgurl Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:51AM

    As if I don't already have trust issues!! Damn people!! lol

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  25. lookingforanexit - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by lookingforanexit Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:56AM

    I know it! lol I sometimes wonder for a second if it is worth it...but I think it is...I have some good friends on here that are definately worth pulling a few weeds for.

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  26. N0timetocry - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by N0timetocry Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:40AM

    You're too wonderful to worry about such things.. I should know <3

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  27. Wurkoutgurl - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Wurkoutgurl Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:52AM

    awww that is so sweet of you...thank you =)

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  28. N0timetocry - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by N0timetocry Nov 22nd, 2012 at 7:54AM

    You are more than welcome! Happy Thanksgiving

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  29. Kayakker - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Kayakker Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:26AM

    No time for them at all I say... Ka BOOM them out of here...

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  30. Wurkoutgurl - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Wurkoutgurl Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:37AM

    good idea..

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  31. loulan - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by loulan Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:25AM

    For real, huh ? It's hurtful and unnecessary ,

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  32. Wurkoutgurl - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Wurkoutgurl Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:34AM

    Very very hurtful when you tried to be a friend...and told them stuff about your past and they judge u for it...

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  33. loulan - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by loulan Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:37AM

    I understand completely.....Hugs

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  34. AnnieDreams - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by AnnieDreams Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:25AM

    ppl put up a front everywhere you go. It's rare to find genuine ppl, especially on the inter webs.

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  35. Wurkoutgurl - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Wurkoutgurl Nov 22nd, 2012 at 2:37AM

    guess so =(

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