Give her one as a gift, My wife and I enjoy toy play, as do many couples. I find it sexy to watch her get off she is beautiful during, and joining in after can be fun also. Shake off those inhibitions, explore and have fun.
I think my boyfriend has the same sorts of fantasies...<br />
Babycakes has it right--just talk about it. Most people are open to trying anything once, as long as there aren't any foreseen harmful consequences, and open communication is always a good thing in a relationship!
Babycakesx has it in one -- Methinks you need to practice the art of conversation in your marriage. You will be amazed how it improves all sorts of things.
Baby is right, just have the sexual fantasies talk, but let her go first. Then it's your turn. Just be you and use the shyness you have.
listen to babycakesx.
stick one in your ear to show her