There are two places here in Oregon that I know about. There's Rooster Rock, which is east of Portland, and Reeder Beach on Sauvie Island, which is northwest of the Rose City
There r places all over the world where clothes r optional. For me there was a place in Kamloops, BC and Vancouver, BC. A little late in the year now, header south and look or google it
No "normal" nudist places around me. I am not gay, but have gone to the local bath and steam house just for the exhibitionist and voyeuristic experience.
I am not fat or ugly, and 51 is not that old, just a fun name to go by
google is your friend
I know their are many places in Florida. Probably even more in California. Just Google It, I am sure you will find one you like.