Do what you feel comfortable with.It is your choice.But you'd be surprised how many women will notice you even if you sit and say nothing at all.Good luck.
It depends on the context, and what sort of woman you want to meet. Gay coffee shops are more friendly for the uninitiated compared to bars or clubs. It helps, in my limited experience, to have gay friends to go with, so you aren't alone. Then they will know people and you will meet potential lovers in a natural way, with no obligations.
Find some friends and avoid the bars, unless you're just out for fun. There's too much drama at the bars, but you'll figure it out. I've got a lot of good lesbian friends, and they call me a lesbian magnet :)
No NO NO! You never just walk up to someone, you have to work the energy a little bit before you go over and out yourself. When you go into any club make sure you smile and look friendly, then say hello to anybody who makes eye contact with you. That way everyone thinks you know lots of people and they can see you're approachable. Find a comfortable place to hang out and check out the girls in the room. Then try making eye contact with someone you might be interested in but don't stare or gawk and don't be desperate. Look at them and smile, then look away and talk to other people. A while later let your gaze go back over to her and see it she'll make eye contact with you. Doing this for awhile before you go over and introduce yourself will insure that she is on fire and can't wait to be in your arms. Good Luck!!
go up to her im bi and i get it <br />
just make sure shes not straight they get pretty offended
Go meet a gentleman who will treat you like a real woman
are you the dom or femme.