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If a co-worker came on to you....would you tell your significant other?

You decline this advance but....Do you keep it low key and to yourself.......to avoid a hassle?

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nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
you just open the door for all kinds of questions: when did this happen? where? did you encourage it? why didn't you tell me sooner? what if it happens again? what are you going to do to make sure it doesn't happen again? i'm going to call them right now!! this better not ever happen again or i'm gonna____________ fill in the blank with any and every kind of nonsense you can think of.

workplace flirting is common, it's just social play most of the time and shouldn't be taken seriously. just laugh it off and move along.........

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Other 11 Answers to If a co-worker came on to you....would you tell your significant other?

MsTiti	Posted Sep 25th, 2009 at 4:56PM Yeah, I probably wouldn't mention it to my hubs. But things in my line of work are a little different--I'm a bartender. It's almost expected that patrons as well as coworkers will get cheeky to some extent. Rated: +3Vote for this!
SummerWind18	Posted Sep 25th, 2009 at 4:58PM nope, I always tell him Rated: +2Vote for this!
Jujalee	Posted Sep 25th, 2009 at 4:58PM I'd keep it to myself so he wouldn't worry about something that's not going to happen Rated: +2Vote for this!
TouchMeNot	Posted Sep 25th, 2009 at 5:27PM Nope. I wouldn't say a word to their significant other. I would simply decline their advances and tell them to move on to someone else. As for their significant other, they will figure it out eventually. Rated: +2Vote for this!
Egoberd	Posted Sep 25th, 2009 at 5:27PM No way. It would cause unnecessary tension. He tells me though because I couldn't care less. Rated: +2Vote for this!
camael	Posted Sep 25th, 2009 at 5:27PM I would tell mine, I think he would be more upset if I didn't tell him. Rated: +2Vote for this!
birdinthehand	Posted Sep 25th, 2009 at 5:27PM if i felt in danger or threatened yes Rated: +2Vote for this!
Lora4075	Posted Sep 25th, 2009 at 5:26PM Yes, because I know you trust me :-) Rated: +2Vote for this!
ForShawn	Posted Sep 25th, 2009 at 5:26PM Absolutely not! Interesting topic since a cute guy at work has been hitting on me via instant messenger (we work together but he is in a different city/state). He knows I am married but I enjoy the attention. He is in town for work next month and has been talking about hooking up. Tempting..... Rated: +2Vote for this!
Undertone	Posted Sep 25th, 2009 at 4:59PM No, like you say it might create a hassle for nothing Rated: +1Vote for this!
LilAnnie	Posted Sep 25th, 2009 at 4:59PM Probably not, he gets all worried and weird. Why do that to him? Rated: +1Vote for this!

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