If he's going to dump you over something as silly as rumours, then he's not emotionally mature enough to stick around for a length of time. It's best to find someone who isn't going to listen to gossip.
I now don't have to respond to this question! Well said. If he didn't bother to find out if the rumors were true he's either immature (get rid of him) or looking for an excuse to back out of the relationship (get rid of him). Yep. I agree.
Tell him they aren't true, but I think he is too immature to take the slagging he will be getting from the other lads about the rumour. I have had experience in that and regrettably I was too immature. So perhaps that is the reason.?.
This is the easy way out for him to avoid being bullied by his friends. I would say he is definitely being influenced by them. So in that sense you can feel better about yourself (in that it is not to do with out that he has broken it off) and maybe slightly understanding towards him. The situation sucks for you if you do really like him because he's probably just a boy in the face of the slagging he gets and not yet a man. :/ If you think this is helpful don't hesitate to ask any more questions. I think I have his perspective. I wonder what the rumour was!?!
No, because by trying to prove rumours wrong, you give them importance they don't deserve. And if he doesn't trust you enough to ignore them, then you give him more importance than he deserves.
NO! If rumours matter more to him than the integrity you have shown him (which was a fundamental he liked after your initial attraction) he isn't worth it!
if a guy dumps you because of rumours , means he had not trust in you to begin with. the foundation of youre relationship was not strong, its up to you if you want to work on it
no you need to prove nothing to anyone except yourself .. he shoud understand
no, you will just be wasting your time.
theres not much point really cause if he,s prepared to risk your relationship on rumours he aint worth having
No because He don't know or care about you if he didn't he wouldnt believe in rumors he would first try to be by your side and trust you
One of my biggest pet peeves...is
Getting accused of something I haven't done!
I feel as if I have been given credit for someone else's efforts.
What you could do if you can't sort out your troubles....by the way, I feel really bad that you fell in this Barney...you could reverse engineer this fiasco and
Prove the rumors right (depending on the rumors of course and whether they appeal to you).
What are the rumors anyhow?
This third part fellow is jealous that you are with his buddy. What a shame. Karma has legs...and it will catch him!
IF there is no truth to the rumors, just tell him so and don't bring it up again. If he doesn't believe you, let him go as he's not the type to trust you, and your life will be hell.
It will be hard to convince him but you could give it a shot ;)