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If a guy has pictures of his naked ex gf saved on his email from two months ago, is that cheating?

the pictures are from two months ago, the relationship has been going on for THREE years. comments? Should this relationship continue?
Posted 7 months ago
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I don't think it's cheating to have naked pictures of someone even if it is an ex. She may have sent them and he opened them and didn't think to delete them too. I've gotten some questionable texts before from drunken ex's thinking they can have a booty call and didn't think to delete them... I got quite a chuckle when going through messages looking for something and suddenly remember they're there. I agree with those that say that you shouldn't be going through his email anyway... Even though you're with him, it's kinda stalkerish. Stop that and focus on the relationship NOW, this was from 2 months ago... this is the kind of thing that can also lead a man to cheat.
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Posted Apr 6th, 2009 at 12:10AM
No....
Stop looking in his email.
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Posted Apr 5th, 2009 at 10:51PM
Nope, means he just has not moved on quite yet. Whip out the camera and give him a few picks to replace the old flame.
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Posted Apr 5th, 2009 at 10:43PM
If he's hiding them from you, that's cheating.
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Posted Apr 5th, 2009 at 10:52PM
ok first off how come you are checking his stuff yo? perhaps he forgot they were there.. i've done that before and didn't even know they were there.. do you still talk to your ex? it all depends on your figurative decision of what you consider cheating.. remember of he does something or has something look and see if you are doing the same thing or have something along those lines.
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Posted Apr 5th, 2009 at 10:58PM
It depends.

What do you consider cheating and do you cheat within that definition?

Do you have old cards or letters stashed away from an old boyfriend?

If you can't figure this out, it seems that you've lost trust and that needs to be addressed. You need to talk to him, not us.
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Posted Apr 5th, 2009 at 10:34PM
It's sort of a gateway drug to cheating, because if they are exchanging things like that then they are far away from "just friends" territory
I've never sent my friends naked pictures
and I'm sorry because that's just disrespectful to you also
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Posted Apr 5th, 2009 at 10:43PM
It is not smart on his part and hurtful as well.I think it creates a serious distraction in his present relationship. An overlooked snapshot is one thing, naked pictures are simply not acceptable. It maybe a sign of a prurient **** interest and or a classic sign of immaturity and insensitivity.

In the main I think it lacks class and I would seriously think about where you stand in his priorities.
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Posted Apr 5th, 2009 at 10:49PM
It's a trophy.... And he might be saving it to call in a fvaor later....
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Posted Apr 5th, 2009 at 10:59PM
YES LEAVE IT BE...
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