If a man on a dating profile writes that he wants "no drama", what does he generally mean by it?

I always take it to mean "don't be like my crazy *** ex"

I only know what I'd mean if I said it, or if one one of my male friends said it.....To us it means someone who blows all of life's problems way out of proportion; acts as if only their problems matter; gets all pissy if you don't immediately put your life on hold to respond to, and solve, every crisis they have; and who's over-inflated sense of self importance, insecurities, lack of self confidence and self esteem constantly causes issues with pretty much everyone else in their life and yours.

He wants no attachment. Meet, greet, and go bang-bang and that's about it.

He means he already has plenty from his wife or girlfriend, and would like to have a female companion that is just friendly and happy to just know him.

I agree, however, no drama often means don't bother me with your feelings or the way that you are a different self than me......that is going to upset me in anyway. I usually see men like this, and find them very shallow human beings, who don't know how to communicate well in an intimate way in relationship, and really want the focus on themselves. There are plenty of narcissistic women too. However, I tend to hear men say this the most and would avoid them like the plague. They can be cold, glib and downright cruel with no remorse in their lack of empathy. There are true drama queens who always need attention because of their insecurities. I am not talking about attention seekers here. I am talking about emotions that we all as human beings. A man who says no drama typically has shallow emotions, and expect you to cope with like and for him. I feel sorry for the women who doubt themselves enough not to know to be very careful when dating these types of men.

Okay you guys (*or ladies I should probably say)...I have read most of the posts on this thread, and I am now going to break it down to the proverbial "Brass Tacks" for you, as I can speak with authority on this subject after having survived two divorces with a couple of extreme Drama Queens, one of which happened quite recently so it is still very fresh in my mind.

I am making this post for the benefit if anyone desiring to have more genuine clarity on the subject, in the interests of helping to guide others to the shoresvof greater peace, sanity and well-being.

Now here's the deal.

First off there is to my knowledge no sane man on earth who wishes his woman to be a sexual robot.

This concept is created and promoted by drama queens.

Being stuck in a feelingless rekationship with a woman who simply spreads her legs or bends over at will might seem humorously intreresting at first thought, but in real life, this is compltely ridiculous, and in factual reality can only have originated in the mind of a drama queen.

What mean really mean when they say "No Drama" is the following list of critical points:
1. No exaggerated and un-necessary scenes, whether in public or in private.
2. No baseless or unfounded arguments. There is nothing more trying to a good man's patience than a woman who unceasingly argues with him for no good reason or purpose other than to be venting at him.

Many women seem to love doing this, and there are even posts in this thread that clearly indicates that there is obviiously a cross-section of women who actually take pride in having the power to do so.

I will tell you now that this is a losing strategy, and it is a recipe for divorce.

3. No nagging.

Ladies, many of you seem to think that by repeating something you feel is important over and over and over and over without end that it will finally get your point accross to your male counterpart.

Sorry ladies, we men are hopelessly logical, and the only logical thing a man can and will do in this situation is shut you out of his consciousness.

We also don't take you seriously when you nag us, as what you really need to do if you are really serious about gettibg through to us is to sit us down, hold our hands, look us directly in the eyes and KINDLY state your point.

Believe me, if you bring us something in such a sincere and loving way...WE WILL GET YOUR POINT, and even better, we might even actually do something about it.

4. No negativity, hostility or violence in any occasion, under any circumstances, or at any time...period.

Okay, let's say you caught us looking at some other woman's *** while we happen to be holding your hand while walking with you.

The standard response which leads to divorce is to create the typical jealous drama queen scene and start getting uptight at us.

What you should do instead if you really wish to keep your relationship together is immediately put our hand on your ***, look us directly

Usually it means to never contact them, and that they'll get at you when nobodies around.

He's looking for a free prostitute.

Remember Pig Pen from Peanuts. He's Pig Pen and the dust and particles following him is his drama

It means;

No women with baggage
No unstable women, fix your own life problems because I'm not going to do it for you
No unreasonably jealous types
No loud-mouthed idiots who cause a scene wherever they go