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If a person you were truly in love with cheated on you, would you give the relationship another chance?

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LorettaYoungSilks
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Depending on the underlying issue as to why someone cheated, then maybe there is a way to salvage the relationship and give them a second chance but just be very cautious... "Screw me once, shame on you, Screw me twice, shame on me"...Love ya gal...*HUGZ*
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newsoul1
Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 9:08AM
If I was truly in love with him, I would give the relationship another chance. We would need talk about it a lot, but maybe I would try to understand him.
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RighteousGirl
Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 12:39AM
no.... once there is water under the bridge I'm out.
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EsotericTrash
Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 12:40AM
Been there, done that. He did it again. I sent him packing for good. Never agian.
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notg
Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 12:41AM
if i had no standards probably so.
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essendon
Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 12:41AM
As much as it would hurt . I think trust is to big a part of a relationship and I would have to move on.
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2Emotional
Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 12:43AM
If the person cheated on me then they wouldn't be in love with me, and who's to say they wouldn't cheat again. As much as it would hurt, I would have to end the relationship and move on.
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sumanitutanka
Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 12:44AM
Been there, done that. He did it 3 times. Yeah, I'm a slow learner. Sent him packing finally to go cheat on other people.
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TravelinMan39
Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 12:47AM
No. No way.
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waltzwithme
Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 12:47AM
Nope.
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ohmercyme
Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 12:51AM
been there, done that. took him back 4 times. he cheated 4 times. its now officially over..but i still miss the stupid ****er.
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angulos
Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 1:02AM
I agree with Loretta YoungSilks. Sometimes there is more to the situation. I've been there and done that as well. But even when someone loves you, that doesn't make them perfect. This one truly depends on the person, and the relationship..
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Nitrobezene1
Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 1:13AM
Yes I would.
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nunyabuziness
Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 1:23AM
Nope, peace!!
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luxor
Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 1:23AM
why a 2nd chance?- that would give the perv in question the grace to cheat again
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DEADALREADY
Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 1:37AM
No chance.
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usslexingtonbird
Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 1:39AM
As sure as I would cheat on them first to know what it's like and I'd keep on cheating to have the upper hand so that I would not get dogged out again.
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BurrittoQueen
Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 1:49AM
After twenty years in this relationship this question has come up several times. We both have agreed that as long as you keep coming home to one another there would always be unconditional love here.

But since it has never happened, I don't think that I can really give an honest answer. I'd like to think that I would.
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Comprehensive2
Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 1:59AM
No and the reason being is that it lets them know that what they did was okay and they will do it again and again knowing that you love them so much that you will let them ruin you and you would be right there like a love sick fool taking them back every time. Been there done that.
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grannym
Posted Oct 18th, 2009 at 9:45AM
If I were truly in love with this person, I would talk to him and find out why he cheated. If it were somethin I was not doin, I would also try to change. Of course I believe in openness in a marriage, so if it were because he just needed a little excitement in the marriage, I would try to help him find that excitement and not have to look for it outside the relationship. It does take two to change the problem.
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