As a woman, your own moral standards must ultimately determine when an abortion is justified. Your body is your own, and all the rest of us can merely make suggestions as to what you should do; some of us will do so more stridently than others. The decision and the responsibility are yours and yours alone.
I am someone who is pro-life. I have said that the only times it should be allowed are in the case of rape/****** or if the mother's life is at risk. You ask a good question.
I think, personally, I have known a number of young women who have used abortion as a form of birth control. They talk about 'responsibility for their own bodies' AFTER they have failed to practice responsibility by choosing not to have unprotected sex or to consider the consequences of having sex with someone they hardly know, when they are intoxicated, etc.
I think, when control and choice are denied a woman, in the case of rape/******, they should be provided with an option. The psychological/emotional aftermath of such an event will inevitably have a negative effect on the relationship between the 'mother and child'.
I would rather not see any abortions being done, but the world isn't that 'black and white'. I would rather see women taking responsibility for their bodies before they have made an error in judgment, before they are visited by consequences, but again, there are sometimes extenuating circumstances that have to be considered.
I was physically unable to have children. To me, because of this inability, having a child is an incredible gift to be cherished, not taken for granted. I was able to adopt an incredible boy who has been the light in my life and given me the gift of motherhood, because his mother chose adoption as an option, rather than abortion. I am forever in her debt.
Response: Sally Sea, you are quite welcome!
I agree 100%.
To force a woman to go through a pregnancy following a rape is to say that she has no value as a human being. Rape is a violent act and to force a woman to continue to pay the price for nine months is cruel. Most petty criminals don't get a sentence that long. Why should society be allowed to impose their irrational and unempathic views on a rape victim only to allow the victimization to continue? Men will never understand the concept of rape and pregnancy. Their arrogance may enable them to offer opinions on the matter but in the end it's just another fool speaking of something of which he knows nothing.
Exactly! The continuance of victimization.
I'm pro-choice; an abortion is justified when the woman whose body is involved DECIDES it's justified. I hear MEN speaking of women "using abortions as after the fact birth control" (often men who don't use condoms as DURING THE FACT birth control, btw). They have no clue what an abortion means to the majority of women, either emotionally or physically---how difficult it is on the body---so to use it as birth control would be like someone opting to have a craniotomy everytime they had a migraine. An early termination involves removing a cluster of cells not viable outside the body, cells that have the POTENTIAL to become a person if left to develop but have not yet done so. So there is no "murder" or "killing" involved. I've never understood the insistence that a woman who is pregnant due to supposed "irresponsibility" should stay so---who would be less qualified to be a parent ?!
Don't tell me to "read up" on anything, since you can't presume to know what my background is on this issue.I stand by what I've said.
You didn't read what I said. Nowhere did I say the "only" abortions ever performed on anyone were early terminations---you inferred that. Late term abortions are an entirely different matter. I said "early terminations involve removing a cluster of cells and no murder or killing is involved". I stand by that. Under U.S. law, early terminations ARE still legal, thanks to Roe v Wade. I admit I'm defensive because frankly I resent having to argue the point with anyone who doesn't have a uterus. Not your body, not really your business.
*clap clap clap clap* that's a big standing ovation for you BB
It doesn't. Rape is an unforgivable offence. Abortion is a womans CHOICE. There is no more excusing an "antiabortionist" :p for judgement of a fellow human beings' decision than there is judging a woman for her own personal choice. They cancel eachother out... just mind your own ******* business & be kind to one another.
People who oppose abortion tend to blame the mother for having premarital sex, and want her to take responsibility for her actions. Obviously in the case of rape this isn't a valid ob
And no, the fetus doesn't get any say, because the fetus isn't cognizant yet. And even if it was, that doesn't give it permission to ride around in someone else's body.
The sins of the fathers are visited on the next generation.
Rape is a crime, if a pregnancy resaults from a sexual assault, to FORCE the victim to endure an unwanted pregnancy is absurd and only idiots would even have such a thought. Sometimes I cannot believe that as adults we have this debate. If it involved the body of males, you can bet there would be no question, they would do as they pleased ba
Well I am not anti-abortion though not exactly pro..
The thing with rape is, you don't know what is wrong with that person who raped you. Nothing to say he isn't mentally ill or physically ill in a way that could effect the baby. Plus there's the matter of would you want to carry a reminder of the most horrible thing that's every happened to you in you for 9 months?
abortion is people playing God. There is enough evidence to prove unborn babies have there own blood type, and use the mother to survive by provide essentials to survival, shelter,food etc,. So once the baby is born a baby continues to need the same things but can get them from anyone of course preferably the mother. So the truth is it is goverment sanctioned homicide. Even if the woman is raped its not justifed because the unborn baby is a inoccent bystander, she can put the baby up for adoption. Unborn baby are separate human being not organs but livng people, they just cannot take care of their self yet.