I knew a guy, that was homeless. He was a very successful telecommunications engineer. He was half black, and half Korean, and married a Korean woman. He saw how much they were taking off his paycheck, and quit his job, he now lives in homeless shelters, and eats at the mission church, and begs for money, all so that he doesn't have to pay that woman a dime in child support.
Either way, that would make you a low life. Live up to your responsibilities.