I have know a number of lesbians in my life and one particular "Butch" lesbian has told me that the reason for your question is generally because they like to be adored and the 'BUTCH' lesbian, actually does love the female form...she told me that caressing and touching the skin of the "femme" is the most erotic feeling in the world to the "butch'.
The Femme has a need to be taken care of, the Butch provides the Authority type figure in the relationship. The love-making is all woman... no harshness or premature ***********, or anything male. just the softness of a woman's touch on the softness of a woman's body... anyway, that is how it was explained to me...
How many lesbians do you know who actually fit that silly stereotype? I can't say I've ever met one.
Where do you get "the majority go for other butch lesbians?" I've been a lesbian my whole life and butches dating butches is the exception, not the norm. But, as to why some butches like other butches, the answer is simple. It's because that's who they're attracted to. All people, straight, gay and otherwise, usually have "types" they're attracted to. I happen to be VERY feminine and I am attracted to more masculine women because I like the yin to my yang. I find them sexy and, for the most part, full of honor, chivalry and integrity. But make no mistake. They ARE women. Men don't own "masculine traits." There are also plenty of straight women who are "tom boys" and they have men attracted to them. It's a preference thing. Both physically and emotionally.
My gay lady-friend is not butch but she definitely prefers to be the provider, the consoler, the dyke in shining armor. She has those "masculine" traits of honor and integrity... one of the reasons I like her so much.
I counseled her against being the knight though, from personal experience it almost always turns out badly.
Funny that she wants to be the passenger not the driver though.
1- many lesbian dont fall in this category
2- im a straight guy. I like tomboyish women... Does that mean i like men? Nope...last time i checked tomboys are women, have vagina, boobs femalebody and femininity...while men have penis, masculinity etc....
Its ll about what attracts you
but women are still women, take me for example, I am a lesbian, but maybe I dont want my girlfriend to be all gentle and wear dresses all the time and constantly talk about shopping and shoes and have her whole bedroom in the color pink. A butch lesbian still has a vagina, still has breasts, still thinks like a woman and has the emotions of a woman, but is just on the more masculine side. I'm sure you've seen older straight women in their 40's and 50's who have super short hair and wear ill fitting jeans and hiking boots and no bra, who are married to men. Straight men like women, but tons of them marry that older woman I just mentioned all the time. Those men probably want a woman who relates to them more and can do what he does involving the car, hunting, remodeling the house, ect. It all depends on the individual. (btw I am a girly girl)
Someone attracted to the same sex is exactly like someone attracted to the opposite sex. Everyone has preferences and it's never a good idea to generalize.
One of my questions is why is it considered hot for girls to make out with each other but nobody likes guys making out with each other? Wtf.
I have pondered this question myself which is why i am here right now. It's socially acceptable for a woman to be with another woman. Women are OK with it even if they don't participate and men love it. Butt..nobody has anything good to say about a man with man aside of the guys who are with each other. Wierd..i'm not gay. I can't be with a man but watching women together turns me on?
Uh, no, that isn't true. I'm a female and I love watching two men together
Butch lesbians aren't males. I don't understand why people make such a big deal about that..there can be a tomboy walking down the halls, completely straight and guys still like her, why? Because she's a girl.
It's the same with girls. I'm a lesbian and both me and my girlfriend are as feminine as women can get. Plus, I see many lesbian couples where they're both butch as well. So please don't say the " majority " because that is stuff you see on TV. Not all lesbians are like that.
Stop getting so defensive. It is a good question not one of you have answered. I just went to my first lesbian gathering and everyone was ugly and butch and I could not understand why they say they fancy women when not one of the 200 people had any resemblance to a woman. I am both ways inclined but a cute woman is what I would be interested in. So just answer the question.
right..I'm a dude and love women..i don't do men and they don't do me. I just think that women who are frustrated with men turn to strong woman to fill the part. i know a few lesbian couples and one always plays the male part. Dresses like man.. works like a man in some cases. The male lesbian so to speak always calls the shots. Quite unlike the traditional man woman relationship where decisions are made together. I guess it's a submissive thing. some people like to be told what to do..how and when. that's fine with me sexually as a man. I don't mind roll playing and letting a woman take control but i also like to switch it up and be the boss myself at times.
I love all the expert straight people giving their opinions on what lesbians are attracted to. I mean really, are you guys that stupid? It has to do with attraction. It's that simple.
Simple, it is all about personal preference, does it really matter. I myself am a gay man and I am a fairly butch guy and I like blokey masculine guys who are the same.
well that is certainly very messed up, but the butches are the ugliest things that i have ever seen in my life.
I smell bigotry!
There is a real gay agenda to normalize this behavior. im.hearing a lot of textbook tones fron that movement. The reason some women go for butch lesbians is because somewhere in their social development a deviated or abnormal attraction was established with a woman. Attraction to the same sex is sometimes mistaken for when in our human experience we have contact with someone. Maybe a boy or a father emotional scars a teen. Another teen of the same sex provides comfort, a hug is spontaneously follwed up with a kiss. The teen likes it, it feels good. they are confused, they think they are gay because they are not supposed to like it. yet they fail to realize our bodies are meant to be stimulated. The problem is that people assign orientation on many false premises whether or not its right or wrong to pursue these feelings and attractions depends on where your moral or religious compass points you. The fem women is attracted to a butchy man because she chooses to only be attracted to that type of gender and butchiness is a complete perversion of natural science and what religuous text teaches.
If your idea where true there would be no lesbians, cause suffering and agressions is actually what lesbians get from many people including family...
Also have in account that many women have an abusive husbnd yet they stay, they even return after they got scared, when he convinces herwith sweet words... You hve never been a lesbian , you cannot just assume things and consider those assumptions true.
many lesbians want their partners to play the man role. very disgusting pigs.
wow, holy ****.
It's scary, I know, but don't worry we won't make you lazy men look too bad. I understand why straight men feel threatened by butch lesbians.
I like butch lesbians because they have the best qualities of men and women rolled up into one. It's not entirely about the looks, its about who they are, how their brain works, the sexiness of defying gender roles in society. But when it comes to looks thats pretty sexy too. And people tend to forget no matter how butch a woman is, she is still a woman, and has that body and that mind. The soft lips, smooth body, and unexpected curves dont hurt either. Oh and the muscle tone and short hair. Its alllll good.
They are sik fukkas
that is accually a really great question maybe to let people know wat they are searching for, although dont assume every 'butch' looking woman is lesbian because there are alot of people who just like different styles, who want to be different from everybody else.
It's the ying and yang thing
This is indeed an interesting question, to which I have no answer.
Although I would have to agree with the insight of crystalclear1.
Define "look like men" please.
Is it short hair? Pants instead of skirts? What about all the straight women who prefer feminine or "metrosexual" men rather than rugged, unkempt guys? Are they any less straight because of that preference?
Lesbians like WOMEN. Women come in many different shapes, sizes and styles. Gender ex
Clear as mud?
Stop getting so ******* defensive. It's a question. Answer with some rationality please or get the **** out. I agree with the person who posted the question. That "Yin and yang" thing is bullshit. Look, women should look like women. Butch women are really not that attractive. If I were with a woman, I'd like one that actually looks like a woman.