Good question, hon. I guess we humans have a tendency to "paint ourselves into the corner" with our choices in life. Or maybe let the wrong people choose for us.
Because thats what life is
In order to be able to do the things we want to do we have to make sacrifices. the irony is that for many people they never really get to enjoy the rewards of their work.
Yes, I'm very helpful.
i ask myself this all the time...