Either you can, or you can not relocate. That's what it really comes down to.
I'd let it go. Mostly because I have family I won't leave, and I would never want someone else to relocate for me. That would make me feel obligated and obligation breeds resentment.
Then you do what feels right for you. I have kids, grandkids and great grandkids I will never walk away from. If you have none of that and a job you don't mind leaving then, I say, go for it.
pack up and leave and good luck
By all means you should meet them... good or bad outcome, you should meet them.
Don't give up. you just never know. You two should try and meet if you can.