Either you can, or you can not relocate. That's what it really comes down to.
I'd let it go. Mostly because I have family I won't leave, and I would never want someone else to relocate for me. That would make me feel obligated and obligation breeds resentment.
Then you do what feels right for you. I have kids, grandkids and great grandkids I will never walk away from. If you have none of that and a job you don't mind leaving then, I say, go for it.
pack up and leave and good luck
By all means you should meet them... good or bad outcome, you should meet them.