Find someone that is not those things and learn why they are happy. I found a friend with Jesus.
It may seem as if nature is rewarding them but actually nature is correcting this issue by giving people like that enough rope to hang themselves.
Because it results in misery all around and is not virtuous.
Because it keeps you lonely! I love a girl who hated that about me and now she is no longer my girlfriend. She is still in my life as friend (although weve only ever been online), but theres now no planning to meet and live together and stuff like that. I miss her terribly and wanted to spend the rest of my life with her. She was my dream girl and I would die for even now if I had too.