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If nothing's happened after the 8th date, can we make the assumption that it is just friendship?

The dates have progressed since the first one, i.e. just coffee, then dessert date, then dinner at a restaurant, then dinner at his house. A lot of smiling and laughs but no touching. I am holding myself back because I don't know how he feels.

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  1. WizGeezer - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by WizGeezer Nov 4th, 2012 at 8:39AM

    He might just be a gent who wants to get to know you before he bangs you.

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  2. Serenitree - 66-70 years old - female

    Posted by Serenitree Nov 4th, 2012 at 8:39AM

    Why are you in a hurry? Why not just enjoy his company for a few months or even longer. *IT* will happen, maybe, if it's meant to; but rushing it is silly. All the time you spend getting to know each other first will make it all the better when and if it does happen.

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  3. monocerus - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by monocerus Nov 4th, 2012 at 8:37AM

    he may be doin the same, push it, an see where it goes

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  4. uneedapankin - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by uneedapankin Nov 4th, 2012 at 9:24AM

    Have the two of you discussed sex?

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  5. Tummytocker - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by Tummytocker Nov 4th, 2012 at 9:09AM

    Perhaps he is just shy.

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  6. PuddleJumping - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by PuddleJumping Nov 4th, 2012 at 9:05AM

    He probably does not know what boundaries you hold and does not want to cross them for one. Two you are interacting maybe with his inner child or adolescence so at the moment there is no interest in sex just excitement in the new Interest.

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  7. FlauntTheImperfections - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by FlauntTheImperfections Nov 4th, 2012 at 8:51AM

    Be patient and happy that he isn't all about sex. Is this the 8th date in 2 weeks? Or is this 8 dates in 3 months? You make might just want to move faster than he does.

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  8. happyadventurer - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by happyadventurer Nov 4th, 2012 at 8:51AM

    you may have found one of the few guys left who actually respects a woman! Congratulations :) don't give up too early.

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  9. mara8 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by mara8 Nov 4th, 2012 at 8:48AM

    why havent you touched ?

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  10. SilenceEvermore - 18-21 years old

    Posted by SilenceEvermore Nov 4th, 2012 at 8:44AM

    You don't need to have séx in order for it to be a relationship..Jesus, love has become so base and perverse..

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