If relationships are voluntary, how do I go about them without being pushy?
I constantly hear people telling me, "they do not have to do things", and I am just trying to be friendly and make friends. "People do not have to be friends with you" is what I hear. I do not want to be pushy. It just seems like its impossible to have a relationship with someone if "they do not have to do this or that". Its mainly boundary conflicts.