If some one hurt u u think it's better if u dont let them know that they did? or what else is better?
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Posted by burstin2go May 26th, 2010 at 4:58PM
It is probably a good thing to let them know, but choose your moment carefully.
Don't go blasting in straight away. Pick a time when the person is in a good or reflective mood, when you can introduce the subject tactfully and they will see why they have hurt you. You can even turn it into a positive experience, if you are really lucky.
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Posted by Lany113 May 26th, 2010 at 5:00PM
depending on who it is, what they did to hurt me, and whether or not they did it intentionally
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Posted by whiteangle May 26th, 2010 at 4:58PM
Im the type to hide,no matter what.
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Posted by peza May 26th, 2010 at 4:49PM
Punch
In
Mush
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Posted by Vessa May 26th, 2010 at 6:39PM
I think it depends on who hurt you and how he/she will respond to that information.
Some will be apologetic or at least sympathetic.
Some will glory in it.
Some will just look at you as weak.
Some will feel defensive and compound your hurt or make it all about them.
Some won't care one way or the other.
If the first case, I would definitely tell them in a kind way.
If any of the last four, I would not disclose the information and realize that a single hurt need not multiply.
It's times like those when you find out who people really are in relation to you.
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Posted by Toby2day May 26th, 2010 at 6:12PM
I'd rather endure physical agony than let some one know they hurt me. If it was their intent to do so...screw them to the 9 hells. If they did so mistake, it is simply sharing the pain, and pointless.
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Posted by lleasarae May 26th, 2010 at 5:03PM
Let them know because if you don't they will keep doing the same thing. I used to let everything go and eventually realized it was my own fault people will get away with whatever you allow them too. Definitely say something its important to communicate as long as its valid.
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Posted by Doublejeopardy May 26th, 2010 at 5:01PM
When I use to have this problem I use to not say anything. Some people like games. By telling them what they did wrong only gives them power over you and your fears. Because the next time they get angry at you ...guess what? Now if they are a sincere caring individual then they wouldn't want to hurt you and they should be aware of their short comings.
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Posted by Braveheart4real May 26th, 2010 at 4:54PM
Let them know and then decide if you want to continue to deal with that person or you can move past the situation. They won't know unless you tell them and either they will respond positively or negatively and you must go from there not all hurt is intentional which you will find out when you confront that person. I'm not one to hold something in that has hurt me I'm not a soft person but I do like to live life not holding a grudge and harboring feelings.
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