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If someone avoids committment in a relationship, is that a sign of immaturity?

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It is a sign that he doesn't want to be committed. Move on if you want someone committed to you and you to him.
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Posted Jul 7th, 2009 at 5:17PM
Most likely, if he's around the same age as you are...he's not grown up, yet...guys take a little longer to do that, than us girls...
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 6:33AM
nope, just commitment phobia. Just because someone doesn't want to be involved in a relationship doesn't mean they're immature, they're just not that into you
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 6:33AM
Could be or it could be that he's just not into you. Either way I wish you luck in whatever you decide.
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 6:33AM
Not really, it's more a sign of -- it's not the time for commitment. Maybe this person isn't right for you. Maybe he knows you're not right for each other and he's not willing to take the plunge.
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 6:34AM
I guess it depends on how you define commitment. If by that you mean willing to 'take the next step' towards a more serious relationship the answer is that it doesn't really have anything to do with maturity. Just because someone isn't interested in a more serious relationship does not by itself indicate a lack of maturity. If by commitment you mean the person doesn't follow through on what they say they are going to do, or complete the plan of action they have agreed to complete than yes it absolutely indicates a lack of maturity. I hope this helps clarify for you the difference?
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 6:09PM
Yes, it is. Commitment is expected in any kind of relationship. Maybe the person is not yet ready, or have had a traumatic experience that's why he/she is afraid of commitment.
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 6:34AM
There's such thing as fear of commitment, but normally when that person actually falls in love they get over it! Move on and find a guy who wants to spend his life with you!
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Posted Jul 3rd, 2009 at 11:13PM
Or fear!
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 1:16AM
It is a sign of (THEY DO NOT WANT TO COMMITT.) Nothing more, nothing less.
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 12:08PM
It's wisdom not immaturity. People know their limits and what they want and if committment is not for them then it's not and they should not be expected to or forced to change their way of thinking. In the end if they are MADE to committ and they are NOT ready it would fail so don't push it.
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 1:04PM
He is just not that into you! Get the movie!
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Posted Jul 4th, 2009 at 6:08PM
i would say more inexperience then immaturity.
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