If someone hurt you in any way, would you hold a grudge? what would they have to do for you to be able to forgive them?
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Posted by BurnPhone60 May 16th, 2012 at 7:11AM
I would rather just forget them and in time that grudge will attenuate to a state of utter indifference. If they are capable of hurting you, then forgiveness is meaningless to them. I would rather not waste one second of my time trying to grant a favor to someone who was odious to me.
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Posted by WhiteWidowess May 16th, 2012 at 3:06AM
I will never forgive the daughter-n-law who threw me across the room breaking my leg in three places while her children watched and screamed how they hated her for hurting their grandma. When I was approaching her to hug her, she assumed I was going in for the kill I guess and she attacked me, while I had a broke arm and had just came out of surgery with only a splint on. I have never once even raised my hand to her. So, I don't care either way.. live or die.. I could care less...is that a grudge
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Posted by pearlyq2 May 16th, 2012 at 2:58AM
Yes, to my dying day. My Dad knew he was HIV positive, as far back as 1986. I got married in 1987, had my first child, in Aug, 1988. He passed out, from double lung pneumonia, a kind most people do not get, because of their regular immune system. His immune system, was poor, due to the virus. He started getting sick, on my daughter's first birthday. He would go through many hospital stays, at times getting worse, at times getting better, In December, 1990 they thought he was in the hospital, for the final time. He was very sick, and I thought he would not make it, that time as well. But that day, I had just gotten a sonogram, of my second child, and found out I had a little boy, on the way. I went straight to his bedside, that day. I told him he had, a grandson on the way, and could not go just yet. He recovered and live to hold and enjoy his, grandson for six months. Too bad, he never got to meet, his third grandson. I still hate him, in many ways. He lied right to my face, that he did not have full blown AIDS, when the doctor's were at his bedside, telling him, he did. He also stated the way he contracted it, was from a needle poke, he accidentally made when working in the hospital. That was so full of ****, in 1997 I got a hold of all of his medical records, and had a well qualified doctor friend of mine, go over the chart notes,
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Posted by MushroomFairyDust May 16th, 2012 at 2:44AM
My mother inlaw has hurt me with her snoody comments and favoritism between the grandkids. I definitely hold a grudge and she would have to admit her wrong doings and sincerely apologize and change before I will ever forgive her. I currently have nothing to do with her..
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Reply by WhiteWidowess May 16th, 2012 at 3:01AM
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Posted by sugarfooties May 16th, 2012 at 2:43AM
Forgive? What's that?
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Posted by mulder May 16th, 2012 at 2:40AM
depends on what they did. I can forgive most anything,,a few things i can't hurting a child,,cheating on me,
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Posted by TheOneyouwerewarnedabout May 16th, 2012 at 2:40AM
eye 4 an eye
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