Some people you can trust to speak the truth to you,the majority you cant.
yes, you can be assured that what's coming is about you.
No, when you need to ask whats it all about? Can I help?
yep they just haven t got the nerve to say it, or aren t sure you can take it
depends how its said and what is said, I certainly seen both cases where its true. That they talk about you and were they dont talk about you and actually themself. Depends on the character/person really. People deal and say things very diffrent.
Most definitely. LOL