To me, anything a person says or does won't be overlooked because they were drunk. To me that makes it worse. Good or bad, the alcohol is boosting it. It's no different if a girl gets beat up when a guy's drunk and then apologizes when he's sober.
I had a person tell me off when drunk and wonder why I didn't talk to him anymore. Same thing. Oh, it was just he booze talking doesn't fly. Things tend to get worse, not better.
Continually asking the same questions isn't going to sort out your pain! Everyone here who takes enough time to understand your situation will tell you to walk away!
So, the question for you, is when are you going to stop trying to find people to support your case and remove this dropkick from your life!
This is going to hurt you for as long as you want it to hurt you.
Don't respond just ignore him!
He's cheated on you lots, why continue the pain!
Dump his ***!
he was probably being sincere at 3am, however drunkenly. and in the morning he lost the bravado he had from all the alcohol from the night before. so instead of saying what's on his mind he'd rather just try to erase what he said. but what's been heard, cannot be unheard….
people get brave when their drunk (i.e. losing inhibitions.) and they do things they wouldn't do sober. he began a conversation with you that he didn't want to continue. either way it was on his mind.
I'd wait till he wasn't either drunk or hungover. then i'd ask him what was the other night about. i wouldn't go all in and just lay my cards on the table and tell him i love him. you can't throw yourself at him when he asks you that question. now he knows how you feel but you don't know how he feels. he initiated the thought, so you explore why he's thinking that, but don't reveal too much yourself.
in my humble opinion.
i'd be upset too^^
I try not to feel emotion of any kind ever. but it might be a let down.
I'd be very upset. I don't think I would want to continue a relationship, whether it be friendship or romantic, with someone that did that.
Depends on the word.
Tell him to f.uck off and if he reacts negatively to that just tell him he was a turd for taking back his word.