If the way I love my man is less intense than the way he loves me, is it wrong of me to date him?
I love my boyfriend. I love dating him and going out, etc. But lately he has been overwhelmingly passionate about how much he loves me. He gets drunk and gives me the loooonnnggg speeches about how he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and about how everything he does in life if just for me. It has only been 7 months of dating and the intensity level is starting to overwhelm me. I just came out of a divorce 2 years ago and was very happy when I met my current boyfriend, who seems to be everything I have ever wanted in a man. I am happy with how things are and don't want to jump into anything super serious (i.e. marriage) so soon after going through divorce. Although he agrees to the technicalities of not getting engaged yet, the fact that he holds me on such a high pedestal is just starting to make me feel pressure. It's overwhelming and starting to affect things in the bedroom. All the pressure means I'm never in the mood. I do love him and just don't know what to do.