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If u feel really wronged by a family memeber should u get over it cause its family or stick to ur guns?

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Asked By: wench1 31-35, F  1 year ago

i had to go in for two major operations with possiblity for major complications. they were life changing operations and i was scare as all heck and needed family. my mom said she would come up and take care of the kids for a week i said maybe a cpl days till i'm outta hospital to help my husband. she said she would see if she can get the time off. i heard nothing from her, not even a call the night before nothing. then three days after the operation dad called my cell (i was still in hospital) i ask where mom is he said she had a last min chance to go down south w some friends and left. then she calls when she gets back and leaves a message that she wants a call back cause shes worried about me and how it went. i'm livid that she took off like that, not even a call before or after. the operation could have lead to my death and the day she came back would have been the day of the funural if i didnt make it and yet she doesn't understand why i would be mad. i think i have a right to be

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  1. akidmum - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by akidmum Aug 15th, 2012 at 2:36AM

    As the saying goes, blood is thicker than water.. What a bunch of lies.. Then the saying that God is love, God's promise unchanging?? I used to believe it.. Not anymore..

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  2. micia73 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by micia73 Apr 2nd, 2012 at 6:55AM

    I have other family members to turn to.

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  3. dorianblue - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by dorianblue Jan 10th, 2012 at 7:52PM

    Bad situation where the mom didn't apparently think things through or remember her commitments. But you ask if you should stick to your guns. What guns? What are you hoping to achieve? You have a right to be mad, so be mad and demand an explanation. Totally put your feelings out there. But don't hold a grudge regardless of the outcome. They are family, just demand you all duke it out.

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  4. wench1 - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by wench1 Jan 10th, 2012 at 7:59PM

    ah yes but i have put the :olive branch " out there not once but three times and she has snubed me each time, she wont be bothered with me till i say sorry to her for being mad in the first place as she said she doesnt think shes done anything wrong, so i have tryed to work it out, but she wont so i am just walking away and losing a family. but i dont think i should have to kiss her butt, she was in the wrong and because i wont say sorry to her for my hurt feelings she now wont have anything to do w me till i give a apology

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  5. dorianblue - 51-55 years old - male

    Reply by dorianblue Jan 10th, 2012 at 8:04PM

    Till YOU give an apology???? Something is wrong with this picture.

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