If u feel really wronged by a family memeber should u get over it cause its family or stick to ur guns?
i had to go in for two major operations with possiblity for major complications. they were life changing operations and i was scare as all heck and needed family. my mom said she would come up and take care of the kids for a week i said maybe a cpl days till i'm outta hospital to help my husband. she said she would see if she can get the time off. i heard nothing from her, not even a call the night before nothing. then three days after the operation dad called my cell (i was still in hospital) i ask where mom is he said she had a last min chance to go down south w some friends and left. then she calls when she gets back and leaves a message that she wants a call back cause shes worried about me and how it went. i'm livid that she took off like that, not even a call before or after. the operation could have lead to my death and the day she came back would have been the day of the funural if i didnt make it and yet she doesn't understand why i would be mad. i think i have a right to be