Pissed and mortified.
Laugh at them, then tell them that's not what I paid 12yrs of school fees for and they'd better think of another direction.
they would know not to ask me. or ever let me find out...
I would not be pleased.
I would wish they had not told me.
The words mental institution and crisis intervention spring to mind
well i wouldnt mined at all ... it's better then doing drugs,or getting drunk and going to jail
I'd be shocked. Especially if it was my daughter. I think all illusions of her innocence would be shattered into a million tiny pieces and that might be hard to take.
I think I'd want to know why. Whether it was for money or love of sex or some other reason. Might be a bit weird to talk about though.
It just wouldn't happen. My daughter is growing up in a loving and nuturing environment and she will have an excellent private education with every opportunity this world has to offer. Girls like that don't end up in the **** industry.
I have a friend who proves that statement wrong. She grew up with all that, went to university where she discovered her passion for sex. Went on to work in a brothel (the money is incredible btw. you can get thousands in a day for doing something you enjoy doing anyway) until she decided to go into ****. She's not messed up in the head, it's just what she likes doing. She's a great person and a great friend.
Her father was probably fcucking her from a young age which did fcuck her up.
And I can make thousands in a day without having to work in the sex industry.
Grace of god? Take your prayers and stick em where the sun don't shine. If I was bought up by nutters who believe in gods I'd probably turn out bad as well.
I'll get back to you in 20 years. Some of us live in the real world where we are honest with ourselves and with those around us. Some people live in fantasy land where everything is perfect until it goes horribly wrong. I'm not one of the latter.
It's their choice as an adult at that point.
Can't really say anything they are legally grown tell them to be safe and careful with there bodies, who they work with, and make sure that they read there contracts.
Let me think about it!
i will be very angery and i will do my best to change her mind if i couldn't i will say : YOU ARE NOT MY DAUGHTER I DON'T KNOW YOU AND YOU DON'T KNOW ME, IF YOU WANT TO BE A @#€$ BE IT.
and have another one
Well, not the career i envisioned for them, especially If i ever end up in public office or as a judge. But it is their life. But JFK bedded random women all the time while president, Clinton got a ******* while in office, Eleanor Roosevelt's lesbian lover lived with her in the white house, so by the time I get there it really won't be a big deal.
After the initial shock and dismay, have a realistic conversation about the industry, what it's like to work in, the risks involved, how it follows a person after they leave it.
Let them know I support thier decision, I'd just want them to be aware of what they are getting into, just don't expect me to watch any of thier work, because that would be wierd.