If you analyse your friends in real life,..are they mostly taking advantage of you and not being such great friends ?
Especially when they are way better off than you and yet they always seem to come out on top ?? For me some do use me and some don't..One in particular got me on this topic..I began to seriously study who owes who what...after they pushed their luck that bit too far..Now i do not want them using my place as a drop in centre for their convenience..They brag how much money they make..Often thousands in a single day.
Then they smoke the place out,.use the facilities,.run out of beers and drink mine if i have any..Commission me to do work for them and not pay me,..not return things and generally be so stingey even though they boast about how much they rip people off in business...I started to write a list..
Its like they might be filthy rich,..but their karma credit has run out around here.
Mostly i notice this with friends (and often they are ex-friends),.that are very well paid tradespeople who had easy upbringings.