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If you are who your friends are, then who are you if you have no friends?

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Every person should have their own identity - your identity should never match your friends - that would be boring.

Without friends though, life would be lonely.
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Posted Jul 1st, 2009 at 6:56AM
You are yourself, beccause no one is there to influence you
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Posted Jun 29th, 2009 at 3:50PM
That makes no sense.
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Posted Jun 29th, 2009 at 4:08PM
Who I am is better off. I lived the life of having way too many so called friends over the years and because of the lies, using, back stabbing, cruelty, callousness, and two faced actions I don't have "friends" and I certainly don't want any at this point in my life. I'm much better off without that stress and drama messing up my day to day existence!!! I was a friend but didn't have any.
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Posted Jun 29th, 2009 at 4:07PM
What you are is a lonely person. Try reaching out to people and getting to know them. You might be surprised at how easy making friends can be.
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Posted Jun 29th, 2009 at 4:16PM
I've never heard this phrase before, but can tell you whole heartedly it is not true.

If I were who my friends are I'd be a "man-slaughtering"-fickle-junkie with no direction. I love my friends, but I am not them.

If you have no friends and you're asking this question - you're lonely - find a friend.

-Endless
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Posted Jun 29th, 2009 at 3:51PM
You are who you choose to be. Friends come and go, and you'll learn something from each of them. Use it to make yourself a better person.
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Posted Jun 29th, 2009 at 3:50PM
I know who I am!....I am me!....That's the main thing!
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Posted Jun 29th, 2009 at 4:01PM
Your an Outsider. If You are who your friends are, your stupid. Be Yourself.
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Posted Jun 29th, 2009 at 4:17PM
You need to be who you are, not who your friends are. You have to be an individual who thinks on their own and isn't influence by others or gives up being themselves to become someone else. Never lose your identity for the sake of having friends. So, on that note, I would still be me, with or without friends.....
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Posted Jun 29th, 2009 at 4:17PM
That old saying is misleading. You're always just you.Friends may be an extensions of your taste, in the company you keep.It stops there.
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Posted Jun 29th, 2009 at 4:34PM
Probably you haven't found your own place yet. If you don't identify with any particular people, you probably feel different and odd.
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Posted Jun 29th, 2009 at 5:25PM
Very lonely.
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Posted Jun 29th, 2009 at 9:40PM
Man is both an individual and social being; he is independent and also interdependent. It is dangerous to live as a half-being!
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Posted Jul 2nd, 2009 at 9:56AM
friendless LOL
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