I'm told that forgiving not the same as forgetting. To forgive is to let go of the hold that the wrong has on you. To forget could allow the wrong to happen again, couldn't it?
You never forget the wrong you forgive to heal yourself vengeance bitterness chokes the life from people :: very sad :-( x
If you forget the wrong how is it possible to forgive? Can't forgive something you don't remember.
Learn to live with it. Let go of the bitterness. Let go of the hate. It's a process. But it is possible.
By undersanding wrong is a part of being right.
These do not go hand in hand! We learn from our mistakes and therefore must remember. The ability to forgive begins with the idea that a mistake was made, being the easiest, to someone who intentionally does wrong, like killing someone, and ends with a full understanding that we all must feel pain and anger at sometime in our lives, but its what we do with it that determines who we are and how we live our days till our end. Those who cannot forgive will ultimately live under a shadow of hatred and only show signs of happiness as a way of simply being, and not true happiness.
Forgiving doesn't mean forgetting. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.
We are born with a memory. You can't forget. What you can do is walk away from it. Leave it behind you. establish new memories. New thoughts.
You acknowledge that people are flawed, that sometimes they do wrong, but also that they can strive to do better, and you move past the wrong in order to give them the opportunity to grow past it.
I was been suffering hardship from HIV/AIDS since 9yrs now, and i happen to have 2 kids for my husband, and now we cannot proceed to have another kids all because of my disease and now i have do all what a human like i and my husband can do just to get my disease healed, i have went to several places to seek for help not even one person could ever help, until i melt a comment on the daily news paper that was commented by Miss Marilyn about how this powerful traditional doctor help her get cured of the disease (HIV-AIDS) " my fellow beloved" i firstly taught having a help from a spiritual traditional healer was a wrong idea, but i think of these, will i continue to stress on these disease all day when i have someone to help me save my life?" so i gather all my faiths and put in all interest to contact him through his Email address at email@example.com , so after i have mailed him of helping get my disease cured, i respond to me fast as possible that i should not be afraid, that he is a truthful and powerful doctor which i firstly claimed him to be. So after all set has been done, he promise me that i will be healed but on a condition that i provide him some items and obeyed all his oracle said. I did all by accepting his oracle fact and only to see that the following week Dr Ugbakhuan mail me on my mail box that my work is successfully done with his powers, i was first shocked and later arise to be the happiest woman on earth after i have concluded my final test on the hospital by my doctor that i am now HIV- Negative. My papers for check are with me and now i am happy and glad for his miraculous help and power.<br />
With these i must to everyone who might seek for any help, either for HIV cure or much more to contact him now at these following email now,<br />
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" sir thank you so much for your immediate cure of my disease, i must say for curing my disease, i owe you in return. Thanks and be blessed sir.<br />
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