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womaninlove21 womaninlove21 22-25, F 69 Answers Nov 16, 2012 in Dating & Relationships

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Before I punish, I would be more interested in knowing why and addressing it accordingly.

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Well I seem to be in the minority here but I don't have blanket policies for marital issues. Rarely is one person to blame in marriage. We are all human and capable of making mistakes under the right circumstances, anyone that doesn't believe that is very delusional. I would want to understand those circumstances and determine if my actions contributed in any way. If they had then it would be foolish for me to hold her fully accountable. My wife and family are important to me, my ego much less so. So I stand by what I said and would judge the circumstances and determine my course of action accordingly.

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Most people do not realize that cheating is not about sex!! Cheating is a resualt of some breakdown in the relationship usally communication / most often it is our emotional need that is not being met. Do not take one another for granted and talk openly and honestly!! Relationships must be wokred on.. If you get cheated on realize that it is half your fault.!!!

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...very perceptive answer, oncemoor.

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I cannot punish him, as he is not mine anymore... i will just abandon and move on....

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I would do what carrie underwood did in her song lol

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perfect to clam down...

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....LOVE IT, jody2477

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Thank you :)

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Divorce

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I've had a wonderful marriage for 40 years. A couple of infidelities by each of us has only made it stronger. Now we grow happily old together having worked through the difficulties, "for better for worse", and been true to our vows. Repentance and forgiveness makes for richer relationships.

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It's not about punishment, but rather self protection. I would end the marriage.

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the result of my reaction will lead me to jail.

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I don't believe in revenge. I would just be gone.

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Leave them to their new adventure.

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punishment requires time and my energy, I would not punish anyone, my partner is a free person, I will move to the next experience without any regrets or harsh feelings

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i will confront them about the situation calmly and maturely :D with TWO SWORDS DRAWN!!!

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:D

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I'll have a last chat and then take the door for good

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Kick her out. She lives here rent free. She doesn't have a job either.

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By cheating for someone else too!

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Same

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So...when are we getting together? lol =D

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Find out why, then loose him/her. It might break you but hey it'll be worse for them. <br />
They obviously didn't like you enough to stay in their pants.

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I am and would always be a no one to punish or reward. <br />
The person would get as per Karma.<br />
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I would not deem them worthy of any further attention. They obviously do not respect me or themselves in any way. <br />
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I would simply leave and deal with my sorrow in a respectful way toward my self.

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The deed is done, and the decision is completed with proof....Do you really think its worth any to you when the fact remains in your face? Move on, do not go down to that level.

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No punishment really. I'd just leave them

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Suffocate him with my vagina.

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Now you're talking!
This is an excellent punishment since you get to punish him with your sex.

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