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If you catch your partner cheating,how will you punish the person?

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Asked By: womaninlove21 22-25, F  6 months ago

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    oncemoor - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by oncemoor Nov 16th, 2012 at 11:43AM

    Before I punish, I would be more interested in knowing why and addressing it accordingly.

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  1. donotfollowme - female

    Reply by donotfollowme Nov 17th, 2012 at 3:19AM

    just a question, what will you address..she has done what she had to and you can not undo it ..?

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  2. oncemoor - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by oncemoor Nov 17th, 2012 at 3:32AM

    Well I seem to be in the minority here but I don't have blanket policies for marital issues. Rarely is one person to blame in marriage. We are all human and capable of making mistakes under the right circumstances, anyone that doesn't believe that is very delusional. I would want to understand those circumstances and determine if my actions contributed in any way. If they had then it would be foolish for me to hold her fully accountable. My wife and family are important to me, my ego much less so. So I stand by what I said and would judge the circumstances and determine my course of action accordingly.

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45 Answers to "If you catch your partner cheating,how will you punish the person?"

  1. GirlThinking - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by GirlThinking Nov 16th, 2012 at 11:49AM

    I cannot punish him, as he is not mine anymore... i will just abandon and move on....

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  2. donotfollowme - female

    Reply by donotfollowme Nov 17th, 2012 at 3:18AM

    perfectly how I would do

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  3. IamJody - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by IamJody Nov 16th, 2012 at 11:44AM

    I would do what carrie underwood did in her song lol

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  4. GirlThinking - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by GirlThinking Nov 16th, 2012 at 11:59AM

    perfect to clam down...

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  5. seagoat2 - 56-60 years old - female

    Reply by seagoat2 Nov 17th, 2012 at 12:01PM

    ....LOVE IT, jody2477

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  6. azaliea - 51-55 years old - female

    Posted by azaliea Nov 16th, 2012 at 11:44AM

    Divorce

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  7. nostalgianow - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by nostalgianow Nov 17th, 2012 at 6:58AM

    I've had a wonderful marriage for 40 years. A couple of infidelities by each of us has only made it stronger. Now we grow happily old together having worked through the difficulties, "for better for worse", and been true to our vows. Repentance and forgiveness makes for richer relationships.

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  8. Classicality7 - 56-60 years old - female

    Posted by Classicality7 Nov 16th, 2012 at 11:46AM

    It's not about punishment, but rather self protection. I would end the marriage.

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  9. Zorroo - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by Zorroo Nov 18th, 2012 at 2:22AM

    the result of my reaction will lead me to jail.

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  10. Warrior4Eternity - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by Warrior4Eternity Nov 17th, 2012 at 8:55AM

    I've already been through this so I can honestly say there's no room for revenge because they don't deserve the time and effort it takes to achieve what people feel is a punishment. You're so much better off leaving, moving on and achieving what you want out of life without them is the only true way to punish them.

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  11. Abbeyrhode - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Abbeyrhode Nov 17th, 2012 at 7:26AM

    I don't believe in revenge. I would just be gone.

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  12. daviesgirl - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by daviesgirl Nov 17th, 2012 at 6:18AM

    He would be thrown out and there would be absolutely no communication between us from that point on.
    I can say this because I have a really good relationship with my partner and if ANYTHING is bothering either of us we talk it through, so there would be no reason to cheat with anyone else as we solve our problems before they become serious.

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  13. CrazyWaterSpring - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by CrazyWaterSpring Nov 16th, 2012 at 11:45AM

    Kick her out. She lives here rent free. She doesn't have a job either.

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  14. donotfollowme - female

    Reply by donotfollowme Nov 17th, 2012 at 3:19AM

    I bet she will never ditch you

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  15. Dot11 - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by Dot11 Nov 16th, 2012 at 11:43AM

    By cheating for someone else too!

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  16. Whateverrrrr - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Whateverrrrr Nov 16th, 2012 at 11:45AM

    Same

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  17. Dot11 - 26-30 years old - male

    Reply by Dot11 Nov 16th, 2012 at 11:46AM

    So...when are we getting together? lol =D

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  18. Ariesthewolf - 13-15 years old - female

    Posted by Ariesthewolf Nov 17th, 2012 at 11:44PM

    Find out why, then loose him/her. It might break you but hey it'll be worse for them.
    They obviously didn't like you enough to stay in their pants.

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  19. mejj - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by mejj Nov 17th, 2012 at 11:32PM

    I am and would always be a no one to punish or reward.
    The person would get as per Karma.
    __/|__

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  20. ladysypit - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by ladysypit Nov 17th, 2012 at 11:18PM

    I would not deem them worthy of any further attention. They obviously do not respect me or themselves in any way.

    I would simply leave and deal with my sorrow in a respectful way toward my self.

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  21. it4o - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by it4o Nov 17th, 2012 at 10:57PM

    The deed is done, and the decision is completed with proof....Do you really think its worth any to you when the fact remains in your face? Move on, do not go down to that level.

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  22. loveicetea - 16-17 years old

    Posted by loveicetea Nov 17th, 2012 at 10:37PM

    No punishment really. I'd just leave them

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  23. missholley - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by missholley Nov 17th, 2012 at 9:26PM

    Suffocate him with my vagina.

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  24. C3C3C3 - 13-15 years old - female

    Posted by C3C3C3 Nov 17th, 2012 at 8:05PM

    Well, being 13 thus has never occurred to me for obvious reasons, but I'm going to say
    I'll let them have my partner, it will be punishment enough

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  25. gloriajean238509 - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by gloriajean238509 Nov 17th, 2012 at 2:41PM

    i wouldnt punish them i always tell the person im with if you cant wait for me to be ready then go get it somewhere else but once you do know that you will never get it from me and we will not make it

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