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If you felt strongly about an important friendship and you regret not pursuing it, would you now?

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Asked By: Dasani4ever 31-35, F  5 months ago

After 10 years you saw an old friend that you had a good friendship with and realized you are all grown up now and figured she is a good person, and you are a good person, would you pursue the friendship again? The real question is after seeing her a year ago and her not even saying anything to you, but you still want to talk to her, would you still email her and ask why she seems she comes across that she hates you, would you email her?

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    sumnerkagan - 41-45 years old - male

    Posted by sumnerkagan 1 Jan 15th, 2013 at 12:57PM

    if she comes across like she hates you, I wouldn't bother. (I suspect that those who say yes just haven't read your explanation)

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  1. Dasani4ever - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by Dasani4ever Jan 15th, 2013 at 1:01PM

    true, it seems a bit stupid to reach out to someone who acts like they have no feelings towards you. I sometimes ask myself why I would want to, and I simply wonder what if I missed the signals or what if that person doesn't know what to say, I try and try to give a good explanation for something that may just be because "it is what it is" but yet I over analyze things.

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  2. sumnerkagan - 41-45 years old - male

    Reply by sumnerkagan Jan 15th, 2013 at 1:06PM

    I have a friend who I never had a falling out with, yet we seldom reach out to each other and seem to come up with excuses to avoid it when one of us does. we were thick as thieves back in the day, and now nothing for a couple of decades but stilted emails and a few awkward meetings. there's a lot of water under the bridge, I guess, and I lament his loss but can't seem to bridge the gap and I'm not sure it would be worth the effort anymore.

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  1. mononoaware - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by mononoaware Jan 15th, 2013 at 1:38PM

    sometimes you don't get a second chance.

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  2. Dasani4ever - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by Dasani4ever Jan 15th, 2013 at 1:40PM

    well this would be my 3rd chance actually LOL

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  3. SpaceBlues - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by SpaceBlues Jan 15th, 2013 at 12:56PM

    Why not? nothing to lose but pride

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  4. Dasani4ever - 31-35 years old - female

    Reply by Dasani4ever Jan 15th, 2013 at 1:18PM

    true... i think it's just nerve wracking if she tends to ignore me again then well that would make me feel pathetic LOL

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  5. Whateverrrrr - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Whateverrrrr Jan 15th, 2013 at 12:54PM

    No.

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  6. sazzid - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by sazzid Jan 15th, 2013 at 12:53PM

    yep..i wud..

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