I got my high school girlfriend pregnant. it required a lot of tough decisions but we went for the adoption route. we almost chose to abort. 14 years later I got to reunite with my son. I wept for hours when I realized that this amazing person almost didn't exist. We now have a strong relationship that gets better day by day. I know that things are tough right now but choose wisely. Be brave enough to live a life with no regrets.
there were a few girls in my high school who got pregnant. and several rumors about others having abortions.<br />
if it were my daughter who came to me & told me she was pregnant, i'd probably take her to a family therapist, to make sure she understood all of her options. i pray she wouldn't have an abortion simply because she didn't feel she could tell me she was pregnant. but once i was sure she understood all her options & the repercussions of each, i'd totally support her decision, whatever it may be.<br />
i have a hard time understanding why so many young girls get pregnant. family planning centers provide free condoms, and i think its legal in most states for an under-age girl to get birth control without her parent's consent. and there are quite a few different forms of birth control to choose from.
Get an abortion or give the baby up for adoption.
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Don't be a murderer, put it up for adoption or take responsibility for your action's and keep it.
i had a girl lie to me about that. I was freaked out. But decided that I would take responsibility.<br />
Then... when i found out she was lying... I thanked God and promised I wouldn't have sex again until I was married. That worked for 3 weeks.
I'm currently in my sophomore year of high school. If I were to become pregnant I would be utterly devastated. I know that statistics aren't everything but the fact that only a percent and a half of teen moms have a college degree by age 30 would make it a terrible experience. I'm working hard to keep/get my grades up so I can get into college and get an advertising degree because I want to design advertisements and logos. I'd also have to spend the small amount of money I get (which is none because I don't have a job, which I'd have to get as quickly as possible if I got pregnant) on pregnancy costs (regardless of whether I chose to raise the baby or do adoption) and if I raised the child I would need to have money for childcare costs. which would leave me living with my parents or on the streets, without a car or license possibly. not to mention that I wouldn't be able to get the graphic design software I'm saving up for
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Marry her, refusing to take "no" for an answer, whether from the girl or either of our parents.
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I would have taken responsibility.
Adoption if at all possible. Abortion can actually cause health risks for teenagers and can actually, if done improperly, can make it difficult for them to have children in the future, especially if they wanted a vaginal birth. <br />
It does depend on the situation though. I suggest taking preventative measures in the first place. I did have a friend, of whom I deeply admired who had a child at age 15. She took to being a mother quickly and decided to stay in highschool and even move on to college. Her mother was very strict with her too. While everyone was going to prom, she was in the hospital because her little girl had a really bad ear infection and her temp was skyrocketing. The baby made it out okay and she told me she does regret not going to the dance, but she admits that there is something in her life that was more important than a prom dress.<br />
If a teenager could have the kind of responsibility and courage like that.. I think I could trust them to be a parent if they do so decide. But I admit being a little pro life on things like that. Thats just me personally. You never know how to handle that kind of thing unless you were in those shoes. its really up to the individual.
Stay calm and think your way through it an abortion or giving up the baby isn't a good way to settle this type of thing.It happens all the time...but think do yhu really wanna be in your house alone wondering what your child is like? and thinkin of who is your child with?is she/he dead or alive?why did i do such a stupid thing?....And a whole lot more....but if yhu ask mehh i wouldnt want my child out there wondering the streets or with some crazy parent tht has no life id rather be at home with my child having fun.......and when yhu think about it yhu have no choice but to step up & be the bigger person face it .....yhu did it and u got a prize wit it srry :( <br />
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never put yourself in the position to have to answer this question...
abortion, sorry i have a phobia of children and babies, it would totaly freak me out, which is why i remain a virgin.
Why is murder preferable to giving the baby to people who will love him?
Phobia of pregnancy, getting kicked out with nothing to fall back on, too addicted to an eating disorder or a drug or alcohol to be able to stop long enough for the kid to have a decent life
get a job , get marryed live happyly ever after.....
if i ever happen to get pregnant... (which might be, i hope not) then i would work really hard and think through things.. abortion is not an option for me. that's a definite.
Remind her of how neither of you have no planned future and that neither of you want to be working pathetic low paying jobs because you were raising a kid instead of going to college like your more intelligent peers who either wrapped it up or did other more preventative things. Also, look at each pair of spread legs as a possible bear trap because they will always let you in, but if there's a baby in that equation, they will never let you out. If you have any desire for success, she's the one that agreed to letting you inside of her. Let that be her problem and tell her to get some morals. Harsh I know, but guys get ****** over in pregnancy because the guy is always expected to work and bend over backwards. Pretty much sacrifice himself meanwhile she sits at home and negotiates with MTV at home, has her girlfriends over and has baby showers and all that crap, and then everybody looks down on you for knocking her up when she oopsed on the birth control or lied to you or other means. <br />
So yeah don't let having a kid screw up your life.