If you knew your friend was cheating on her husband, would you stay friends with her?
18 Answers to "If you knew your friend was cheating on her husband, would you stay friends with her?"
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I would remain friends, although the relationship may change. It would also depend on the circumstances. In my experience women usually cheat more for emotional fulfillment than physical fulfillment. Who knows..
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I would certainly suggest she kept her extra curricula activities to herself in future !!!
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exactly! it's like..why come to me for advice if you arent going to take it?
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Not only that, but if the **** hits the fan, then you are involved because you knew about it , but said nothing. I think I would walk the other way for a while !!
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It sucks as knowing that little tiny secret, but if you are friends to both you try to talk with her and just talk sense with and try to make her do like stop cheating on her husband if you knew her husband as cheating make it worse than anything and lies and all. I don't think breaking friendship will do any good to her, so talking and trying to know if she need help or if things between her and husband going wrong or bad and she does that so leave it to them after all it is man and wife thing.
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yes, if she continues to cheat, i think i may have a problem staying friends with her..thanks for the input!
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You are welcome :).
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what does that have to do with you? you dont know what really goes on in her marriage, so youre not one to judge.
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i'm not judging..just not sure i want to condone her behavior...this is why im torn
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Sit down and tell her this bothers you. She will probably tell you it is nothing and then that will be the end of your relationship.
An affair is what she wants so you will be cast a side quicky. If you don't say anything then you can remain a friend. The thing is the affair will usually end and then she will be talking to you again. I am not saying that is good.
Or you can wait until she leaves her husband and then maybe you can help the husband to deal with this.Like (2)
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thank you for the helpful feedback...i dont know the husband, so that actually make me feel slightly BETTER in a sense, that i dont have to keep the secret for her. she knows it bothers me..i counselled her before and after she went into this with open eyes
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I would be afraid that people would suspect me of the same behavior if I just let it go.
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i sure know what you mean, jelly bean
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Yes, she is covering for me
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lol
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probably leave alotta distance..........keep yur own soap operas........im full
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Duh. Obviously... she's cheating with me.
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You know what if she is a close friend then just listen to her. We doesn't want your advice. She just needs a confidante. She is telling you this because she thinks you can handle it. Let her live her own life.
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No
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Not ONLY would I stay FRIENDZ , ...Id be NEXT in LINE!
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lol...you're terrible! ;D
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lol ..I KNOW!! ..LOL! €:-]}
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Of course I would, I try not to judge my friends and expect the same from me.
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She's ya friend or did you meet them both... if they were a couple before you met them leave it be... if she was your friend before him then you know what she is like so accept it...
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i only know her. she was with him when we met, and i have never met him. im not getting involved as far as telling anyone. im just wondering if i should have friends like her around
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If it upsets you and not what your into distance yourself her life she'll ruin it soon and not your issues if ya out of there... I have done similar with interferrin friend now they are called aquaintances... best of luck..
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well as a guy to another guy, its not my business.
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as im a girl, im not sure what you mean by "as a guy to another guy" lol
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Not my business. That doesn't affect me.
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but that's also what people say when they dont want to take action on behalf of someone else~for example, when someone is screaming for help and one doesnt called 911 bc "hey i dont know them..it's not my business"
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That's not the same thing. You can't compare someone's life being threatened with 2 people's relationship. It's unnecessary drama for yourself. Why bother?
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You would have to 100% evidence otherwise you could lose a friend over nothing
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oh she straight-up told me before and after the deed
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Posted by ddandme Jun 20th, 2012 at 4:14PM
Probably not I like my friends to have morals ..
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Reply by Danielle94 Jun 20th, 2012 at 4:17PM
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Reply by foldedunfolding Jun 20th, 2012 at 4:23PM
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