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If you love someone how to overcome that little bit of shallowness about their physical flaws? I need to work on this.

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Asked By: XxCupcakeLoverxX 26-30, F  10 months ago

They are chubby and look kind of old but I love them anyway. I don't want my shallowness to hurt them by wanting someone better looking :(

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  1. brandi0r000 - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by brandi0r000 Jul 30th, 2012 at 3:40AM

    I think if you really loved them, you wouldn't feel that way.

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  2. XxCupcakeLoverxX - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by XxCupcakeLoverxX Jul 30th, 2012 at 3:42AM

    I think I do because I would give up what beauty I have, to be with them.

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  3. xXgolfwangXx - 18-21 years old - male

    Reply by xXgolfwangXx Jul 30th, 2012 at 3:42AM

    now i dont have to say it but i would of went with a more dickish tone

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  4. Thediscreteman - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by Thediscreteman Jul 30th, 2012 at 3:39AM

    Well my advice is since you love them to just accept what they look like and love them for who they are and not care what they look like

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  5. XxCupcakeLoverxX - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by XxCupcakeLoverxX Jul 30th, 2012 at 3:40AM

    He's the best person I've known for 9 years.

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  6. AbbeyLanr - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by AbbeyLanr Jul 30th, 2012 at 4:07AM

    dont consider it shallow you nust know what u want. would be wrong to lead him on

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  7. GeorgyGirl - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by GeorgyGirl Jul 30th, 2012 at 4:05AM

    I believe you love this person but I also think you may use your feelings about their appearance as a reason to walk away from them if you don't deal with them.

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  8. XxCupcakeLoverxX - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by XxCupcakeLoverxX Jul 30th, 2012 at 4:07AM

    I think so too. I need to stop being like this.

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  9. Indie42 - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by Indie42 Jul 30th, 2012 at 3:54AM

    Chubbiness is something that can be exercised away. As for looking 'old'? How about an updated wardrobe or new hairstyle? I don't know how many wrinkles he has or if his hair is graying, but balding, he can shave his head. With loving support you can help him into better looks.

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  10. XxCupcakeLoverxX - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by XxCupcakeLoverxX Jul 30th, 2012 at 4:02AM

    I'll help him

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  11. id271 - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by id271 Jul 30th, 2012 at 3:52AM

    If you don`t already, start doing some sport/activity. It is possible he/she will join later.

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  12. XxCupcakeLoverxX - 26-30 years old - female

    Reply by XxCupcakeLoverxX Jul 30th, 2012 at 4:03AM

    I'll have him come running with me at the park.

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