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If you no longer believe in God, what caused you to stop?

Personally I had some doubts and then 'Stargate' was the last "straw".

>.> Not that I believe in aliens. It just got me thinking.

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15 Answers to "If you no longer believe in God, what caused you to stop?"

  1. BarvoDelancy - 31-35 years old - male

    Posted by BarvoDelancy Jul 27th, 2012 at 11:38PM

    I was raised census Anglican so never had strong faith to begin with. But what really got me is when I was 8 years old, I was told a lady in my religious instruction class that dinosaurs never existed. Never. EVER tell an eight year old that. Atheist for life.

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  2. altshift - 26-30 years old

    Reply by altshift Jul 27th, 2012 at 11:39PM

    lol what? I don't understand people that say dinosaurs never existed.

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  3. BarvoDelancy - 31-35 years old - male

    Reply by BarvoDelancy Jul 27th, 2012 at 11:40PM

    Well she was a young earth creationist. If you believe the earth is 6,000 years old a 65 million year-old fossil kind of throws that theory out the window. The only response is to clap hands on your ears and go "I'M NOT LISTENING".

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  4. hylierandom - 36-40 years old

    Posted by hylierandom Jul 28th, 2012 at 12:18AM

    The Christians where I live pretty much believe the bible is 100% true and that evolution is a lie.
    At12 I realized how inconsistent the bible was and that evolution just made sense.
    And a goodly number of the people who got me hating myself and wanting to die were Christian.
    They seem pretty hateful for people who are supposed to be following Christ's example.
    I looked into gnosticism, but eventually discarded the Christian God and Christian doctrine entirely
    The Christians around me have no little part in that. Had I been accepted, I probably would've drifted into a very relaxed Christianity.
    As it is, I think of my spirituality as something that's illogical, but I seem to need it somehow. It seems to make me closer to whom I aspire to be.

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  5. ynot4 - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by ynot4 Jul 27th, 2012 at 11:57PM

    When I realised that we (Human beings) decided that we were SOOOOO important that we couldn't just be here for procreation (unlike all the other species).

    When I understood that we are so frightened of dying that we had to make up something to "extend life".

    When I accepted that we are born, we live, we reproduce, we die - we are really not that important in the grand scheme of things!

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  6. Cheree - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Cheree Jul 28th, 2012 at 3:05AM

    You are very important to Earth...if you weren't here, there would be no reason to have a planet Earth in the first place...

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  7. ynot4 - 56-60 years old - male

    Reply by ynot4 Jul 28th, 2012 at 6:25AM

    Like every other species; survival of the species is important - not the individual

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  8. BentWizzard - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by BentWizzard Jul 27th, 2012 at 11:38PM

    Well, it's not that I don't believe anymore...it's more like I have begun to see different viewpoints. This ended up with me concluding that everything is a possibility that should be respected and studied so that we may understand ourselves.


    That and all of the emotional abuse I suffered at a private Christian school when I was a boy sure didn't help

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  9. Handed - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by Handed Jul 28th, 2012 at 10:05PM

    I see full on sceptics as following a "religious" belief they have no proof as as much as the rest of us. Love your attitude. Sorry about your abuse at the hands of Christians, happened to too too many kids.

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  10. MyNameIsQ - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by MyNameIsQ Jul 28th, 2012 at 1:06AM

    I realized there was no evidence in favor of the god hypothesis, it was unnecessary, it raised more questions than it solved, there were better explanations for natural phenomena, and it took some violation of logic on some level to believe. So basically, I grew up.

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  11. Riffster - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by Riffster Jul 28th, 2012 at 12:07AM

    I never really believed but one day I had a kind of epiphany - if "god" is our father, then he is a really ****** parent - and an absentee one at that. If there's a god then he doesn't deserve us for his children. Would you let your kids do the things we do to each other?

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  12. Cheree - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Cheree Jul 28th, 2012 at 3:01AM

    But how else are they going to learn not to do that stuff? Everybody keeps telling them not to do it, but they still do...so that is Gods fault?

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  13. Riffster - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by Riffster Jul 28th, 2012 at 5:13AM

    Well clearly we haven't learned not to do it so either: 1) God doesn't exist 2) God doesn't care so we carry on as normal, killing each other and raping the planet (often in his name.) I suspect it's the former but if he ever proves me wrong I'm gonna kick him in his almighty balls for being a ******

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  14. thisisevenlessfunnow - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by thisisevenlessfunnow Jul 27th, 2012 at 11:54PM

    When I was in elementary school I realized that there was no more evidence to support a belief in a god than there was to support a belief in Bigfoot or the Loch Ness Monster.

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  15. Handed - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by Handed Jul 28th, 2012 at 10:10PM

    At around 12 I had a creationist scripture teacher. I knew his arguments were angry and stupid (I believed and still do in evolution) and it disillusioned me in Christianity seeing someone as dumb and angry and argumentative as him trying to hammer his teachings into sniggering highschool students. At that stage I became agnostic, I didn't know if there was a God, but I knew I didn't agreethe Bible was His words, I became convinced the Bible was just written by people.

    At around age 37 I became sceptical of all my spiritual beliefs, through understanding how easily peoples minds could be tricked. It related to my mother and her narcissism, a mentalist called Derryn Brown influenced me too. I became a full blown atheist and didn't believe in God, I even wore an atheist t-shirt!

    However at age 42 I rediscovered my spiritual side from profound personal experiences that fully convinced me, though I wouldn't expect them to convince anyone else, I wouldn't believe them if they were someone elses experiences being told to me. I now believe in God again, as a great vine of purely good feelings connected to everything and within everyone.

    I wish you the best, feel welcome to talk to me if you want to ask anything.

    By the way, thank you so much for asking this question! What a great topic!

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  16. automatrix - 36-40 years old

    Posted by automatrix Jul 28th, 2012 at 4:45AM

    Why did I stop believing in religious bullshit?

    Education. Experience. Maturity. Rational thinking. Facts.

    Religitards lack at least one of those things, and usually all of them.

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  17. Mougywolf - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by Mougywolf Jul 27th, 2012 at 11:47PM

    As one who was drawn to the outdoors earlier on in life, I rather excelled in Biology and in Earth sciences. I come to understand the physical evidence there is for evolution, what we know of our universe around us, and then I began to appreciate it all as quite a remarkable thing indeed, but no need really for a god to have created all this. I have come to see our existence as cosmic roll of the dice in an enormously huge universe(s)

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  18. Handed - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by Handed Jul 28th, 2012 at 9:52PM

    There is a difference in believing in God and believing in God the creator of life on Earth. You can believe one without the other. It's possible to believe in God and the Big Bang. Look into the ancient Indian Brahma religion which Hinduism came from.

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  19. lostinchicago - 51-55 years old - male

    Posted by lostinchicago Jul 27th, 2012 at 11:46PM

    I'm no longer "totally" on board as I once was but, I'm not ready either to dispell the Lord.....However, I'd say more like my faith is (((shaken))) to the core....

    So its more like, when did God stop loving me?.....I have rebelled in kind.....So now I wonder if I do believe anymore..

    mm

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  20. Handed - 41-45 years old - female

    Reply by Handed Jul 28th, 2012 at 9:55PM

    I'm sorry you've had it so tough. I believe a soul's journey is a long one. I hope you are able to feel God's love again.

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  21. lostinchicago - 46-50 years old - male

    Reply by lostinchicago Jul 28th, 2012 at 10:22PM

    Thanks....I have this "love /hate" relation with God or if you like, "The Lord".....I've had an interesting life.....More than you could ever know.... Those that know me find it very hard to believe I've surived and excelled.....(Without drinking, drugs or head doctors)....But, thank you for your kind words..... I keep my heart open yet, Its been like waiting for the phone to ring when you've applied for a job......You begin to wonder if they'll call..... :) MM

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  22. fxckup - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by fxckup Jul 27th, 2012 at 11:45PM

    people. i'm not positive that i've completely stopped believing, but the people were really what got to me. i was raised in a very small church, and as i got older i realized the people i had looked up to weren't what i thought they were. then i started going to other churches, and although there are some truly great people, there are also some huge fakes. One thing I remember specifically was going to church with my ex, and he was in the choir. I was always really moved by the music, because the choir was so into it... then i went to choir practice one night, and realized the director would tell them, "okay worship here, lift your hands here, pray here... " and I felt like I had been fooled because everything was so rehearsed. I just have a lot of questions that I can't find an answer to.

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  23. Cheree - 36-40 years old - female

    Reply by Cheree Jul 28th, 2012 at 3:07AM

    And you can find those answers if you read what they tell you not to read and look where they tell you not to look...

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  24. TheNerdFairy - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by TheNerdFairy Jul 27th, 2012 at 11:42PM

    I personally believe in God, but my sister is agnostic. We both had the same very religious upbringing, but I know that she just began to have doubts when she was 19. Then, she was raped by her boyfriend of the time, and that pretty much did her in with her belief in God. Her whole life has been pretty tough, and I think she just lost faith.

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  25. Beksinski - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by Beksinski Jul 27th, 2012 at 11:40PM

    I grew up in a Christian home, and read the bible a few times. I got sick of people not answering my genuine questions but replying by accusing me of lack of faith (even the bible says you shouldn't blindly follow something you don't understand). Also, I grew up in a really evil household, the bible was used as an excuse for sexism, pretty significant abuse, theft, to control people, homo-negativity, and various forms of discrimination, and was repeatedly taken out of context to justify diff individuals own personal agendas. There are great Christians, but I can't stand being near organized religion anymore, and if God is an angry God allowing evil to go on in his name seems like the kind of thing he ought to be upset about.

    Sorry, I'm really wordy.

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  26. altshift - 26-30 years old

    Reply by altshift Jul 27th, 2012 at 11:43PM

    It's fine. Wordy answers are great ;D

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  27. Bear1956 - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by Bear1956 Jul 27th, 2012 at 11:40PM

    I didn't stop believing. I never started to begin with. The bible is the biggest bucket of BS ever created. Religion is for idiots and fools.

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