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I've been on dating sites for over a year and have only had 2 dates. Everyone I message looks at the message but doesn't reply. I cannot believe I am that ugly so maybe I'm doing something wrong - i was with a nice girl for 10 years, so she must have seen something nice!??? It's really depressing me now :(
Lennon80 Lennon80 36-40, M 6 Answers Mar 21 in Community

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just say everything you are not, and say cool and totally alot!

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I'm around the same age and I also stayed with the same woman for 7 years. I truly thought the relationship would lead to marriage so when it ended instead I was pretty bummed. I have tried a couple dating sites before and live in a pretty populated area but I never had more than a first date with anyone. I would say to message more people but even if you get them to respond they usually lie about themselves and show up looking like a monster. That can be even more disheartening especially in a public place. I had this one girl show up all acne scarred and overweight, she was like "I saw you through the window, you look exactly like your picture!" Needless to say, I changed the subject. After she ran up a $100+ tab she was like "I had a great time, lets do this again" and gave me an assout hug. The nerve of this creature, can you believe she wasn't even trying to put out after that, YUCK! I would say, don't take it personal, get out and meet people in real life, and wait patiently for another good thing to come your way.

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Youre not ugly at all from your picture but on the dating website, don't wear sunglasses in the pic because girls like me will wonder what you're trying to hide. <br />
What does your profile say about you? Maybe us ladies can give you some pointers/help

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No, I've included about 3 or 4 pics but photos don't really do me justice. lol. My profile is just stuff about what I like and what I'm about, nothing creepy or anything. I just think it may be the fact I'm only 5ft8 and a lot of women seem to like taller men so they can wear heels (or at least that's what they say in their own profiles). I'm at a loss. I just wish I could go on a date with some of the women and they'd soon fall for my charm. lol Ok, don't be sick now!

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maybe you're at the wrong dating sites. Some datings sites women don't take seriously because they are known to have men only wanting one thing.

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I don't think it's your height

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yes, maybe although I've been on 2 others. I think people are right that I need to get out more and meet people in real life. Easier said than done, trying to talk to women in pubs! :)

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Don't get creepy, don't get too personal, don't include weird hobbies that only a few select girls might be interested in (unless that's what you're trying to find).

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What are you saying in the message… that would be an important part of this…

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"hey bb. You wanna taste the syrup from my soda fountain?"

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Just stuff about myself, my interests (movies and Tv stuff I like, music, etc), really stuff to sell myself. :)

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yes, i may as well :)

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