First reaction...offense...then...denial and then...blame you for being obtuse...then judge you...as that is the narcissistic way of never having blame placed on them...ever. They advert blame...always...all ways.
Denial. The very foundation of a narcissist is that there is nothing wrong with them, it's the rest of the world that has a problem. They will deny that they have a problem until hell freezes over. To admit that they are a narcissist is to admit that they have a problem and that will never happen.
Oh, you are just jealous!
I know I am but what am I?
probebly get defensive because they feel like you were attacking them in some personal way by pointing out a flaw.
Probably some sought of resentment or inflammatory response.<br />
My best friend is a Narcissist :(
If you read and commented on my latest story it might be a bit more understandable, also i would appreciate it :)
this is true they want your friendship because i guess its usefull to them in some way yet they wont give you the same in return because in the end its all about them.
They would say "thankyou" and would keep on talking about themselves.
I know 3 that I would love to say that to. Im sure all 3 would flip out. I have said a few things to one narcisistic friend, she flys off the handle and disowns me then she always wants to track me down and be friends again. go figure
they won't have a come back - they won't hear you as they are admiring themselves in the mirror!
Indeed, Am I not the most fabulous narcissist you've ever laid eyes on?
No. but I am distrubed how easy i find typing prissy....
Probably not but you sure look negative.
its not that difficult to be one. Just a matter of mental self image and delusion. simple enough to do. XD
if i shift my weight off, try and stop me haha :)
They're proud of it.
My brother is a narcissist. Anytime I make any remark to that effect, he launches into a lengthy explanation of why I am actually the one who is a narcissist, attributing all of his nasty behavior to me, and how he and my friends (who met him once and asked I never bring him around again) have agreed on this behind my back.