If you were in a bad marriage 18+ years would you leave if you reconnected with a love you thought you'd never have?
8 Answers to "If you were in a bad marriage 18+ years would you leave if you reconnected with a love you thought you'd never have?"
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Departing a bad marriage should have nothing to do with anyone else, old love or otherwise. The reasons for leaving should only have to do with the relationship itself.
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If the marriage is that bad and you're both miserable, you should either fix it or end it regardless of what or who else is out there.
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nope, I would leave because it's a bad marriage
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in a F'cking heartbeat.
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thanks
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:)
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Saying your in a bad marriage , gives you a convenient excuse to have an exit affair.
Before you take that step. look at what you have got , you could be appreciating what you have , instead of hurting your family.
Have you considered treating your your wife again , how you use to when you first met , all marriages need work and refreshing, take a second honeymoon, at least try.Like (1)
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I have tried and can say I am not having an affair. she lives 900 miles away. I was lied to by my wife. when we got married she was all into the fun guilty pleasures of being together. right after we found out she was pregnant she advised me she was gang raped 2 times when she was 13. She then told me she hates sex. I tried to get her to go for therapy with me or by herself and she refused and continues to refuse. I have tried. I'm Tired of trying.
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Ok things are obviously a lot more complicated than first appeared, I understand your not at present having an affair but your considering it , or you would not have asked the question. Everyone takes baggage with them into a relationship, You have stayed with her for 18 years that's a long time , you can't have been miserable for all that time.Tell her she has to get the help she needs to save your marriage. Look at what you have , and what you could have , with help , before you give up. You need to talk all this through with her and tell her you want a different kind of relationship with her to meet your needs.Be honest and tell her you have been tempted to go else where, but if things were different you would not have considered it. You both need to get some help.
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Yes, but the first thing I would do is get out of my 18+ year marriage honestly and respectfully. Cheating is bullshit.
I would end my 18+ year marriage because it was a **** marriage and not because there was someone else in the picture.Like (1)
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I would not leave a marriage to jump into another relationship.
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Best Answer (Chosen By Asker):
Posted by RandomUniverse Feb 10th, 2013 at 12:36PM
Yes, as long as you realize the new person may not be your salvation.
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