If You Youre Socially Awkard/phobia Is Your Chances Of Having A Good/fun Social Life Gone Or Lost (details)
AT THE AGE OF 19 YOURE STARTIGN OFF WITH A BLANK SLATE NO FRIENDS.OF COURSE YOU RECNGISE PEOPLE BUT THEY REMEBER YOU IN SCHOOL FOR BEING THAT KID "LAME"NOT POPULAR NO FRIENDS LONG STORY....NO SOCIAL SKILLS NO KNOWLDGE OF HE WORLD TO LATE THAT PERSON??
3 Answers to "If You Youre Socially Awkard/phobia Is Your Chances Of Having A Good/fun Social Life Gone Or Lost (details)"
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why is a social life important to you ? I prefer having a true friend over having 100 friends who know nothing about me
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Your'e right I forget that.
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I forget many things thats why it is up to everyone to show peace and respect to everyone else, it makes the world a better place. only you know what makes you happy I just wanted to help you along in a choice that can only be made by you
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Things change. If you're 19 I imagine you're in college now. Find things you enjoy and are good at. Then find groups that focus on said things. The trick is to start looking in new areas to meet people.
At 19 I was in a similar state, although I did have a couple of friends which helped tremendously. But I wasn't well-liked, I did poorly in college, I had no social skills, and I had a hard time at the crappy jobs I did. However, I got involved into activist politics, some friends met some friends, and I began to come out of my shell and learned social skills, got girlfriends, and all that. I'm now a pretty happy dude.Like (1)
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Sounds great!! only if I can have a come back life
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Well the trick is to just find stuff to do with new people. That's why I'm all about clubs and organizations. If you're into poetry, find a poetry club where people share poetry, learn to get better, go to slams, that sort of thing. Find your local college's club directory and just see what looks interesting.
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Posted by Shuhak Sep 7th, 2012 at 6:10PM
I was there once (I was that kid a long time ago). For me it never got better. Just living a lonely, lonely life. However, it doesn't have to be that way for you!
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