If your GF was married twice (at least) and tells you not to ever let their son know it was more than once,is good or ?
OK so after 9 days of Silent Treatment,.and since its anonymous here,..
i'm starting to look back at some of the signs..Sudden Unexplained Silent Treatment (SUST) is enough to drive anyone nuts..So i remember back to the time i said to my GF.."So tell me honestly....how many times have you been married ??"..
Reason i asked was becos i am psychic and was getting the message that it was at least twice...This is unusual to be married and divorced more than once..I do not know anyone who has done that...
So she tells me "twice"..and quickly adds.."Don't ever tell my son (11) becos he doesn't know."
That seemed a bit odd to me since she has a sister in town and mum and dad in the city and the ex-hubby number two in the city and she talks to me on the phone about hubby one and hubby two..The son could easily overhear..
So now she has become a nutter suddenly,.i see the deception as a sign that things are not right in the brain department.
Sound familiar to anyone ?? Name for this ??
4 Answers to "If your GF was married twice (at least) and tells you not to ever let their son know it was more than once,is good or ?"
Posted by jeanemae Jun 19th, 2012 at 12:53AM
The secrets she keeps from the kid have little to do with you. Some people keep this sort of thing from kids. Perhaps they never think they are old enough to understand. Still, if you have doubts about her, why bother. It's no fun being in relationships with people you don't trust.
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Reply by ecpc Jun 19th, 2012 at 5:31AM
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Posted by doucmenow Jun 18th, 2012 at 10:05PM
Bad! Kids are smart and they figure things out sooner or later. They will have far more respect for her and you if she is honest and up front about it.
As long as she assures him that he has always been loved and wanted things should be fine.
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Reply by ecpc Jun 18th, 2012 at 10:08PM
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Posted by SESK4 Jun 18th, 2012 at 9:50PM
Why are you asking questions you already have an answer for? I know you already know. You are just looking for assurance that you might be right.
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Reply by ecpc Jun 18th, 2012 at 10:11PM
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Posted by pixelbest Jun 18th, 2012 at 9:46PM
Drama queen.
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Reply by ecpc Jun 18th, 2012 at 10:13PM
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