It takes two. Send the kids to the grandparents and when he comes home from work, jump him. Take the initiative.
Just get a divorce.....if you are caught cheating thats what you will get anyways and people wont have to think of you as a ***** cheater.
No...never a good idea if you value the marriage; see if counseling is an option, if he balks you might make him aware you're trying to save the marriage rather than look elsewhere. If he won't budge, your choices are: leaving yourself, or cheating, risking him finding out and leaving you. Good luck.
Some may choose to stay and cheat. Why stay in a sexless marriage? Is it sexless? Do you love him? There are many questions you need to ask yourself? You do not provide enough info. I suggest you stay away from the Sexless Marriage forum here. Angry, bitter people for the most part. This is my opinion, my experience. I choose to live my life. I put in 3o years. And I have one spectacular son to show for it. My next marriage will be forever. I have learned my lesson. I will not settle for less than I deserve. What do you want? Good fortune to you.
Passionate kissing after 15 years of marriage... Isn't that asking a lot of the guy? Are you passionate about him?
I feel that cheating is as low as it gets. I understand the pain of not feeling important. just get out then live you're life!
well i think there is something going on there
if a man hadn't kissed me in 4 years id be off to divorce courts unless he is getting his rocks off elsewhere >>??
Try just going for it. Just kiss him out of nowhere