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If your partner cheats on you with someone who doesn't know you, would you be angry at that person even?

though it is your partner's job to be faithful to you?


Pinknailpolish89 and vlowery1105, the other person does not know that your partner is in a relationship because your partner lied to him/her just to have sex.
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i won't, but that doesn't mean the other person's a saint.
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Posted Oct 7th, 2009 at 2:49PM
I'd be mad at myself because my partner has to go elsewhere for their needs.
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Posted Oct 7th, 2009 at 2:21PM
I would be angry period. Its not about blame or betrayal its about the fact all I see is red. So to be real I am mad at everyone who played a role in the drama including myself. Its pure hell but thats how I react.
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Posted Oct 7th, 2009 at 2:25PM
I wouldn't be angry with anyone in this situation BUT my partner. The other woman wouldn't be cheating on me... my partner would be the only one to have consequences (from me) in this type of situation.
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Posted Oct 7th, 2009 at 6:47PM
given the circumstances, my partner would be the one to get the full force of my anger. i don't think i would be too angry at someone he duped into thinking he was single.
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Posted Oct 7th, 2009 at 2:55PM
First... if my partner needs to just have sex, and there's no emotional involvement then I'd be worried about the state on our own relationship. Why are they (she in my case) looking for just sex?
Second ... cheating is really a weird concept. Humans are able to have (and many do have) multiple relationships. Getting mad at either of the people here seems to be a waste of time. Has their action actually taken anything from me? Unless you're talking ownership here the answers is a solid NO.

So ... my answer is No I wouldn't be mad at anyone. If my partner left me for another ... that would make me sad!
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Posted Oct 7th, 2009 at 2:28PM
yes i would be mad..but not as mad as if i knew him
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Posted Oct 7th, 2009 at 2:01PM
In that situation, I may be a little jealous of the person, it depends on whether or not they knew you were in the picture...Some people don't have any class and will mess with anyone regardless of another person's feelings, and there are some that don't believe in messing with those who are already in relationships...whether you know them or not...
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Posted Oct 7th, 2009 at 1:58PM
It would be hard not to be angry just because you feel like they took something of yours, but honestly you can't blame them for something that was offered to them freely, not knowing you existed. The one to blame is your partner, they made the choice to cheat. Considering though if the person knew you, especially a friend, they should of held some restraint and respected you enough to say no, in that case, yeah I wouldn't blame you for being mad at both.
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Posted Oct 7th, 2009 at 1:57PM
I would be upset ONLY if that person KNEW about me. Not necessarily knew me.. but that I exist and am the partner of MY man lol

If that were the case, I would wish harm on them both.. but with all honesty..

I would call her a dumb b1tch for wanting a man that cheats because he will just do the same to her..
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If she didn't know about me and was willing to leave him once she found out about me.. we would probably even become good friends if she was cool lol

and I will divorce my babez, take the most belongings ONLY SO that my boys may have it. and I would try to obtain FULL CUSTODY but I will agree to visitation rights.
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Posted Oct 7th, 2009 at 1:50PM
I would be upset at my partner.. they were the ones who knew for a fact that we were in a relationship.. key words .. were!
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Posted Oct 7th, 2009 at 3:27PM
the other person had no idea that they were in a relationship? No, you can't rightfully be mad at someone who to the best of their knowledge was not doing anything wrong.. but in such a case you can be doubly mad at the lying cheater!
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Posted Oct 7th, 2009 at 1:48PM
Probably.
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Posted Oct 7th, 2009 at 1:45PM
Why would you be mad at the other person? I've never understood this concept. The person your with is the one that cheated on you. They are the ones that lied. They are the one that has a commitment with you. The other person has nothing to do with you.
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Posted Oct 7th, 2009 at 1:41PM
oh yeah! i would probably hate both of them! they both played a part so there both to blame! i ******' hate cheaters! makes me so mad!
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Posted Oct 7th, 2009 at 1:40PM
Only if he knew she was married
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Posted Oct 7th, 2009 at 5:05PM
no why wud i they didnt know that that person was in a realationship it cud have easily happened me too you cant blame the person because they were lied to
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