He is trying, he has to be interested, his actions tell you so, see how it goes;) thats all you can do at this point....and please, don't question, dont start the convo of oh is this that or ( no, this isnt sex oriented, guys can do that too, its just a downer, the big question and whining thing, dont do it:) just enjoy ..whatever, it will just be a tedious drag, much better to let things flow,...just a bit of "humble' advice;)

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The point is - is it over? I don't want to annoy him or bring him down.. I mean should I bother texting him again for our usual type of meet-up or should I just wait and see if he texts me? Right now Ive been just avoiding texting him and I haven't heard from him so I'm kinda thinking he isn't interested after all and is definitely being too polite to say so and I totally misread the whole situation. He had told me when I said I liked him and wanted to know if he wanted to move to a more normal situation or wanted to know if he just wanted to keep things as is that it was a lot to process.. I don't want to be dumb about this but I don't want to be a fool either.

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If he isn't staying in contact he isn't the guy.

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It means your feeling his confusion which you have instilled in him..<br />
If you want things to be normal,...just keep guiding the progress.

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how? have I confused him? and how do you guide the progress? I told him I liked him and if he wanted to pursue a more normal relationship that was fine but if he just wanted to keep things as is I was fine with that as long as he didn't confuse me by crossing the line. So now, do I just wait to hear from him or do I go with the keep things as is approach and see what, if nething, happens?

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it means he's trying.

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He likes the current arrangement. Wants to keep you. From your description, personally I say, move on. You'll never really know if he wants you for you or because of sex.

Are you still having sex with him? Put him on a no sex diet. Tell him 6 months of dating. See what he says/does.

However, I think the genie is out of the box. My advice is to move on.

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