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Im 14 and i think im pregnant! i dont know what to do!

it is by my 16 year old boyfriend, he is a very wonderful support system and told me if i am pregnant he doesnt aprove of an abortion

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    eHamm - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by eHamm 1 Jan 28th, 2013 at 1:30AM

    1) It's extremely unlikely that you are pregnant, so first of all, if the only reason you think so is because your period is a little late, that can be affected by so many things. Such as eating habits, the last time you had sex, if it was your first time having sex, etc. Seeing as you have access to the internet, I would do some research.
    2) Don't freak out. I would recommend not telling your parents until you are sure. Get THREE pregnancy tests, to be sure. The womens clinic also does free tests. So if you know anyone(like your bf) who can drive, tell them to take you there asap!
    Just find out if you are preggers....
    3) If you are lucky and not pregnant, the womens clinic also gives out free condoms and cheap or free birth control. PLEASE take advantage of that if you plan on having sex again, which I don't recommend for a 14 year-old, but you should at least be protected.
    Best of luck.

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  1. bajana - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by bajana Jan 28th, 2013 at 1:45AM

    Modify #3: Just focus on school and being a teenager....you have lots of time for sexual activity!

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22 Answers to "Im 14 and i think im pregnant! i dont know what to do!"

  1. infpisme - 46-50 years old - male

    Posted by infpisme Jan 28th, 2013 at 1:00AM

    go buy a pregnancy test

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  2. tommy401 - 26-30 years old - male

    Posted by tommy401 Jan 28th, 2013 at 1:05AM

    go tell your parents about it and seek advice or counsel , at your age that very young good luck , just don't be afraid to tell them the soon the better , get some pregnancy test

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  3. WizGeezer - 56-60 years old - male

    Posted by WizGeezer Jan 28th, 2013 at 1:01AM

    1.) Take pregnancy test.
    2.) Tell Father.
    3.) Father buys shotgun.
    4.) Get married.

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  4. KoiNoYokan - 22-25 years old - male

    Posted by KoiNoYokan Jan 28th, 2013 at 1:31AM

    Honestly, you shouldn't be on EP asking about this. I understand the want to reach out for help but doing so to an online community isn't what you need. Talk with him, tell your parents sooner rather then later so they can support you. They're going to find out no matter what so there's no need to hide it. I wish you luck.

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  5. PrincessLadybug - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by PrincessLadybug Jan 28th, 2013 at 1:10AM

    don't get laid again til your married.

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  6. heavensmissinanangel - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by heavensmissinanangel Jan 28th, 2013 at 1:58AM

    -The baby's having a baby-Any person would say that, your a baby...
    The best option is to keep the baby and it would be best to marry your boyfriend, you're not to young for marriage if you think you're not too young to be having sex. One goes with the other dearest and its time to get a job cause baby needs diapers, your hubby will also need to start working and saving up for the wedding and baby toys etc. People who are having sex are either married or are able to support themselves. If you abort the kid you'll have to live with it for the rest of your natural life and I don't think people get over that/can also cause complications. God bless and I pray that you make the right choice.

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  7. bajana - 22-25 years old - female

    Posted by bajana Jan 28th, 2013 at 1:22AM

    Prepare yourself for the worst....tell your parents and prepare to be a parents!! Now is not the time to feel sorry for yourself! You were grown enough to have sex, so you obviously knew the risks involved (you're not stupid!) so you have to deal with the consequences....but DONT GET AN ABORTION!!!!! Yes you are young, but you are also a female human! Billions of women get pregnant, big deal!! You can still live a normal life after the child is born and happier. Only gonna have to work harder! if you are NOT pregnant DONT have sex!!!! You're only 14 and you should be enjoying your youth while it lasts! Trust me, when you my age (25) you're going to WISH you were still virgin and young!!!! Time flies and we aint getting young ! You have so much to learn dear! Good luck kid!

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  8. Blogger422 - 36-40 years old - female

    Posted by Blogger422 Jan 28th, 2013 at 1:08AM

    Congratulations you're going to be a mother! There's nothing to think about. Make sure you take care of that baby and give him/her all the love you can give. Report the baby's father. Make him responsible for his actions. That's all you can do. There's no other alternatives. Abortion is murder and God will make you suffer if you do it. That baby has a soul and wants to live. Check out videos on abortion and how the fetus is shredded into body parts. Please don't do the wrong thing and suffer the rest of your life in hell.

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  9. bajana - 22-25 years old - female

    Reply by bajana Jan 28th, 2013 at 1:22AM

    Keep quiet!

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  10. KoiNoYokan - 22-25 years old - male

    Reply by KoiNoYokan Jan 28th, 2013 at 1:33AM

    please, no

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  11. TheGuyNamedNicky - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by TheGuyNamedNicky Jan 28th, 2013 at 1:56AM

    Im pregnant with pizza rolls. There just too gosh darn good. HAHA! Congrats on the bb though.

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  12. animallover110293 - 18-21 years old - female

    Posted by animallover110293 Jan 28th, 2013 at 1:55AM

    If you aren't mature enough to at least use some sort of protection, then maybe you aren't mature enough to be having sex.

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  13. bijouxbroussard - 46-50 years old - female

    Posted by bijouxbroussard Jan 28th, 2013 at 1:30AM

    Keep in mind that this is your body, and it your choice. If you don't want to have an abortion, don't have one. But don't let anyone else make that decision for you, because you will be going through the nine months and the birth, they won't.

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  14. Sasuke276 - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by Sasuke276 Jan 28th, 2013 at 1:10AM

    Tell your parents -_-

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  15. Disparu - 16-17 years old - male

    Posted by Disparu Jan 28th, 2013 at 1:08AM

    Tell your parents, tell your partner and go and get a test.

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  16. Matryoshkabilly - 18-21 years old

    Posted by Matryoshkabilly Jan 28th, 2013 at 1:04AM

    Oh boy. Go ask your ma for help.

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  17. FlowingDragon - 18-21 years old - male

    Posted by FlowingDragon Jan 28th, 2013 at 1:03AM

    Abort yourself.

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  18. SoulSeeker67 - 41-45 years old - female

    Posted by SoulSeeker67 Jan 28th, 2013 at 1:03AM

    I would suggest you talk to your parents and let them know...... you need to see a doctor to find out for sure and if you are you and the baby are going to need the care of an ob doc. (((hugs)))

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  19. lessthanhero - 31-35 years old - female

    Posted by lessthanhero Jan 28th, 2013 at 1:03AM

    Make an appointment, and if you are, go from there.

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  20. XxCupcakeLoverxX - 26-30 years old - female

    Posted by XxCupcakeLoverxX Jan 28th, 2013 at 1:02AM

    Listen to Dig It Out by Linkin Park for a clue

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  21. Musica11 - 16-17 years old - female

    Posted by Musica11 Jan 28th, 2013 at 1:01AM

    14 is definitely a horrible age to be pregnant! You shouldn't be worrying about being pregnant, you should be worrying about passing math tests and such! But anyway.. you should ask yourself first 'Did I use protection?' You should have anyway. Then, you should buy yourself a pregnancy test

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