I'm 18 and and just found out that I'm pregnant 2 weeks ago. Me and the baby's father weren't dating when I found out. W
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Posted by Rolle2323 Sep 27th, 2012 at 10:56PM
You do need to inform the baby's father. He has a right to know that you are to have his child. And please consider...the precious life of this child. All you have to do is carry it for nine months....and if you don't want to raise the baby, allow another family to adopt it. Please consider letting your child live.
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Posted by perpetualcynicism Sep 27th, 2012 at 10:54PM
Figure out what you want, and what you are capable of doing, no one but you and your embryo matter. Don't take anything anyone says as a fact, only an opinion. Listen to your family and friends if you want advice from them, but the choice you make is yours.
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Posted by LoveyDoveyRocketLunchers Sep 27th, 2012 at 10:59PM
Have the child, and then have it adopted. You're a kid. Since you weren't even dating the boy, it's clear that you aren't ready to raise the baby you bring into the world--mentally or finacially. Adopt him or her to a stable married couple and then try not to be so casual in sex if you aren't rich enough to care for the mistakes that arise.
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Posted by JaneDoe3660 Sep 27th, 2012 at 10:57PM
Classic dilemma. You'll be tied down until you're 38. Think about that. For real. Not that you would not love the baby, of course you would and will. Depends on how much family support you'll have, and then money issues too... besides your own personality, dreams, desires for life, capabilities. Maybe you want to think about OPEN adoption. You choose the couple and you have good strong steady contact as part of the agreement. It's a decision that will change your life and it's yours to make. One thing though, when you finally make your choice, even if it takes up until the moment the baby is born, whatever choice you make - never ever look back and doubt your decision because that is a waste of energy, time, its useless, and its destructive and futile. Stay in the present and think of the future too. You'll be okay. You're pregnant, not terminally ill.
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Posted by heythereep May 5th, 2013 at 2:42PM
Adoption
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Posted by Ultimatejustice Apr 7th, 2013 at 11:54AM
Don't even think about abortion because as a parent you must take care of your child no matter what. And inform the father as well because he must assist you in taking care of the child. After all he is the child's father.
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Posted by PixieCutLover Oct 12th, 2012 at 7:21AM
If you don't want a child just get an abortion www.imnotsorry.net is a great site with storys from a lot of women who had abortions.
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Posted by underconstruction Sep 27th, 2012 at 11:23PM
What is your question ?????????
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Posted by Tgilly Sep 27th, 2012 at 11:08PM
you've been offered some good advice here, minus the idiots of course. I'm hoping you can tap into family for support. Ultimately the decison is in your hands.
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Posted by HedoJoe Sep 27th, 2012 at 10:55PM
W for sure,,,, good luck w/that,,,, it's only the biggest decision of ur all spread legs **** life.....I pity the kid you'll bring into this world,, unless by some remote chance, u brain up,, and do what u should, need, to do,,,
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Reply by Tgilly Sep 27th, 2012 at 11:05PM
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Reply by HedoJoe Sep 29th, 2012 at 8:04PM
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Posted by Aghost Sep 27th, 2012 at 10:52PM
Oh dear. What are you going to do?
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Posted by Frankinweenie Sep 27th, 2012 at 10:52PM
Condoms
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