I feel uncomfortable about you dating someone who is more than twice your age.... ): <br />
But I'm not you.....
Me Too! It would be like me dating a 30 yr old! But I'm not you either!
No you are going to do mistake dear,forget him because he is two times older then your age, after dating defiantly he will request you for a love,sex and so on. once you have sex with him then you will never even imagine dating such old man...
ummm.... as a mom of a 19 year old.. I strongly would urge you to NOT date him...<br />
he is like middle aged... way past all the things you are interested in... <br />
what would you have in common?<br />
Im sorry... my first instinct says he is after sex.. I know that is purely a judgement on someone I know nothing about.. but it doesn't set right with me....<br />
did you tell your family??<br />
please talk to them and get their advice
I totally with LifesCraziness"s comment! Don't act on this too fast! Check things out first!
The only reason he likes you id he cannot find a lady around his own age - FACT
I don't think age should be a barrier but I think that when you're 19 it's best not to stray too far from your own age.
If you think it's too much and feel uncomfortable then you shouldn't date him. Because you are asking I assume you are uncomfortable. If it didnt bother yo I wold say it doesn't matter. I don't think age should make a difference if both parties are ok with at and both are over 18
I have two good friends and they are 44 and 21... and its cool. They get along great, and love eachother a lot. Our friends don't even bat an eye anymore... so... anything is possible. I'd say it depends on how you feel.
Yuck and more yuck. That would be like me wanting to date one of my youngest sons mates. Yuck
i say tread very lightly,and be careful cause you should be asking why a man that age wants to be with a young girl ur age.
What do you think? A kid that has not stepped out into life too see things for a few years.. or a 'guy' that has been out in life for 25 years and goes after teens?
No. Date him.
bit creepy hugh hefner
He's too old. someone in their late twenties would be more suitable
I would question the intentions of a man being attracted to someone more than half his age. No matter how much people try to believe that age is just a number the reality for the most part is that there is very little of substance in common between you two, unless you're one of those very rare cases. I married a much older man at 21. As it turns out he enjoyed playing the role of the experienced, wiser one of the two, the one who gets to make decisions for both of us because I was still young with so much to learn. He wanted someone to conform to his way of life and be happy to do it. Is that love? At first it was great, but years later that bit no longer works and disagreements ensue. You just can't teach an old dog new tricks it turns out.
lol listen to all the moms out there trying to relive their waisted youth by attempting to dictate to the young on how to live.She could do worse, like a man hating, spent born again spinsters son.
Um, they're not "dictating". The person asked for opinions.
I don't know what your maturity level is so it's hard to tell. I would say if you feel comfortable in front of friends and family with him and he the same with you an d you are very mature then maybe but if there is ANY aspect of your relationship you feel needs to be hidden from anyone, than no. This means it is not the right relationship for you.
I am sure he feels pretty good about having a young woman like you on his arm...it makes him feel proud and manly for sure.....does he treat you good? <br />
the only issue with such an age gap, is the differences of things you may be into...your very young still, like ot do out with friends, party, malls kind of thing, things your age girls do, he has been there and done that to some point I am sure...but if you two like each other for the people you are and not just for the chemistry, that is great, what holds in the future, thatis something you two will have to figure out, what about if you do stay with him and want a family of your own one day? you are still quite young.....<br />
hope it works out for you in all cases.....
Ask him why he wants to date you,& ask yourself if you really wanna be with him.If you are goung to be together forever he will die before you etc,I think you should date in your age but its your life,whatever floats your Titanic boat…
AGE DOESN'T MATTER. REMEMBER, LIFE IS TOO SHORT. **** WHAT OTHER PEOPLE SAY!
IF YOU TRULY LOVE THAT PERSON, THEN DATE HIM, MARRY HIM, LOVE HIM WITHOUT GIVING A CRAP OF WHAT OTHER'S NEGATIVE COMMENTS ARE.
LOVE IS SO STRONG, NO MATTER WHAT THE AGE, RACE, COLOUR, HEIGHT, OR WEIGHT, LIFE WAS MADE TO DO THINGS THAT MAKE YOU HAPPY!
Oh my goodness! What have you been doing all your living years?!
Have they not taught you to do what makes you happy? There will be a million critics and judgemental people, but in the end, who wins?
YOU do! Why? Because you did what made you happy without listening to what they think of you!
It's a beautiful thing to be captivated, intoxicated, and spellbound by an older man. Just as long as you don't sell him your soul, or give up pieces of yourself that you should probably hang on to!
Life Is too short do live it by rules made for us by other people. Just go for it! :*
He just wants someone young. He could care less about you. He wants to show you off and use you. Stay far away from this old fart.
At 19, age gap is generations wide. Unless you are desperate, it would be a big mistake. Find someone around your own age to grow and have fun with. Don't waste your youth on age
What does your gut feeling tell you? Usually we know when something is right and something is not. Go with your instincts......